As a pediatrician and a mother, I’ve often reflected on the profound bond between a parent and child. One particular moment stands out—a moment that reinforced the idea that our connections begin long before a child enters the world. While I was pregnant, I had a special song that I played frequently for my unborn son, a soothing melody that I believed would create a lasting connection between us.
During my pregnancy, I eagerly devoured literature on prenatal care. I stumbled upon a fascinating concept: playing calming music for your baby in the womb could help them recognize and be soothed by those same tunes after birth. I settled on “River Song” by an artist I adored, drawn to its gentle rhythm and comforting lyrics. Each time I played it, I noticed my little one becoming still, as if he were listening intently to the sounds from the outside world.
As the weeks went by, I cherished the moments we shared while listening to that song. I felt it was our first conversation, a way to bond emotionally before he even took his first breath. However, once he was born, I played “River Song” again, hoping for a spark of recognition. Instead, I was met with silence. At four months old, I found myself tearing up as I played it once more, longing for the secretive connection we had shared during my pregnancy.
Time passed, and the song faded from my daily routine. Yet, one day, while driving, I heard a small voice from the backseat. “Play the river song,” my two-and-a-half-year-old son requested. I was taken aback. How could he possibly remember that? I hesitated, thinking he might be mistaken for another tune. My husband chimed in, “You mean ‘Rain, Rain, Go Away’?”
“No, the river song,” he insisted, prompting me to pull out my phone and play the melody that had once united us. To my astonishment, he immediately recognized it. That moment was filled with unexpected joy, a reminder that our bond transcends the ordinary. It was a small but powerful affirmation of the love we shared.
As a pediatrician, I understand that children often exhibit fleeting memories, but I hope that the feelings associated with that song linger in his heart. Music has a unique ability to evoke emotions, and while he may not consciously remember the song, I like to think he holds onto the sense of comfort and love it represented.
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In summary, the bond between a parent and child is unique and often begins long before birth. My experience with “River Song” serves as a testament to the power of music and emotional connection. While my son may not remember the song itself, I cherish the hope that he feels the love behind it.