Each developmental stage of childhood comes with its own quirks and challenges. We often hear about the “terrible twos,” the “tricky threes,” and even the “fabulous fours.” But let’s not forget the “frustrating fives” and the “sensational sixes.” Now, I find myself in the delightful realm of the “sociable and insightful sevens.”
My eldest, whom I affectionately call Max, embodies everything you’d expect from a typical 7-year-old. He is witty, fearless, and a bit cheeky, but he also possesses an unexpected depth of understanding. I was braced for the usual struggles—turf wars over toys, negotiations around screen time, and the endless battle of wills over vegetables. Yet, what astonishes me is his intellectual growth and emotional maturity, which he willingly shares with me.
Max engages with strangers effortlessly, articulating his thoughts and demonstrating respect towards others, especially service workers. Unlike previous tantrums, he now channels his energy into exploring the world around him, often choosing curiosity over sulking when faced with consequences, like being sent to his room without dessert.
Lately, he’s taken a keen interest in current events, particularly the election cycle. When I mentioned wanting to volunteer for a campaign, he eagerly asked if he could join me. To my amazement, he sacrificed his weekend playtime to go door-to-door in our neighborhood, immersing himself in civics firsthand. His enthusiasm for real-world learning is inspiring; it’s a stark contrast to the dry facts typically found in textbooks.
Each morning after a political debate, our breakfast table buzzes with his summary of the previous night’s events, often met with my partner’s laughter and agreement on the accuracy of Max’s observations. He’s even expressed a desire to attend a rally with us, taking the news of being unable to go quite well: “That’s OK, the babysitter will let me watch it on TV, right?”
Max has seen us engage in various charitable acts over the years—from distributing our leftover meals to those in need, to spending our time volunteering. Recently, he filled out a donation envelope for a foundation we support, with my partner helping him write the check. Another poignant moment occurred when he encountered a hungry man after an event. Without hesitation, he emptied his pockets of change to help. We discussed his gesture, and he shared a profound thought: “Mom, I don’t have to make a difference for everyone, just someone.”
The next day, his grandmother gifted him a small bill, encouraging him to keep part for himself.
When I tucked him into bed after our recent vacation, I asked him about his favorite moments. He gleefully recounted seeing the Liberty Bell—“it’s made of Liberty”—and visiting Independence Hall, where the Declaration of Independence was signed. Surprisingly, he also mentioned an MLB game, but his deep interest in history shone through.
As parents, we often project our hopes for the future onto our children, but I have no doubt that this little activist shows signs of a promising future ahead, one where he can make a significant impact on others—he’s already changed my life for the better.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to mediate a dispute over misplaced Lego pieces.
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Summary:
The joys of parenting a 7-year-old can be profound, as seen through the eyes of a mother navigating her son’s newfound maturity and sociability. This age is marked by curiosity, engagement in social issues, and the ability to empathize with others, shaping a bright future for children like Max.