Let’s get real for a moment: I’m running on empty. And if I could just take a quick nap on my kitchen table or maybe my living room floor, I’d be there in a heartbeat. But alas, I can’t. Why? Because I have not one, not two, but THREE little sleep thieves in my home, and they seem to have inherited their aversion to sleep from some cosmic source.
Curious why this is the case? Well, you’d have to join the club of frazzled mothers because I’ve been trying to figure it out for years. All I know is that in our household, sleep and I have a complicated relationship—it’s a desperate longing for something that feels like a distant memory. You know, like those college days when I could actually sleep for eight hours straight? What a concept!
On the other hand, my kids have a passionate dislike for sleep, akin to how they feel about eating vegetables. It’s as if someone convinced them that sleep is akin to being forced to eat sauerkraut all night long.
And sleep problems? Let’s just say we have enough to fill a book. Night terrors? Check. Bedwetting? Check. An addiction to nursing that lasts far beyond societal norms? Oh, you bet!
We’ve tried every method under the sun: attachment parenting? Failure. Cry it out? Epic fail. Essential oils, late bedtimes, early bedtimes? All resounding failures. In this ongoing saga of “Please, for the love of all that is holy, let me sleep,” my kids are the champions—undoubtedly winning for the last six years.
If there were a competition for the “Miniature Insomniacs of America,” my children would be the reigning presidents, while I, the poor soul, would be the candidate who fell asleep mid-speech. So, from the depths of my sleep-deprived soul, I want to reach out to all the mothers out there who can relate and give those of you with sleeping kids a glimpse into our chaotic minds when you share your sleep triumphs.
The Internal Monologue of a Sleep-Deprived Mom Talking to a Well-Rested Mom
Me: Hey, it’s great to see you! I’m barely functioning today; the kids kept me up all night.
You: Oh, really? My kids slept like angels last night.
My Head: I’m sure she doesn’t mean every night.
Me: Well, I’m glad they had a good night. It’s nice when it happens once in a while.
You: Actually, they sleep well every night.
My Head: Don’t walk away; keep talking. She must be exaggerating.
Me: That’s… that’s…
My Head: Just say “awesome.” Don’t express annoyance.
Me: Awesome.
You: Yeah, it’s a blessing! I can’t imagine being sleep-deprived.
My Head: Oh, you’d be a hot mess! You think I used to look like this before I lost sleep?
Me: But your five-week-old isn’t sleeping through the night yet, right?
You: No, but he started sleeping twelve hours a night from six days old.
My Head: She must be telling tall tales. Just get up and leave. But she’s so nice. I can’t ditch her!
Me: So when did your other kids start sleeping through the night? It must have been a struggle, right?
You: Oh, it took them a while, but finally around six weeks.
My Head: Did she just say “finally” about six weeks? I’d be thrilled if mine could sleep through the night by six years!
Me: So, you must have had a tough crying-it-out phase to get them to sleep so well?
You: Not really. They’ve always just liked to sleep.
My Head: Don’t be jealous; this is just luck. If I were a gambling woman, I’d bet on her.
Me: Do you gamble?
You: Excuse me?
Me: Oh, my bad! I’m just a mess today.
My Head: Clearly, you’re not a mess—look at those perfectly manicured nails!
Me: I love your nails, by the way.
You: Thanks! I did them last night while the kids were asleep.
My Head: Is she trying to rub it in? Oh, wait, that’s what happens when your kids don’t wake you every few minutes. Someday, I’ll be able to lay my head down and sleep…
Me: This might sound silly, but I can’t remember how sleep works. Can you remind me?
You: Sure! I just lay my head on the pillow, and it usually takes about ten minutes before I’m out… um, hey, are you awake?
Me: Snore.
My Head: I’ll just let her sleep and keep an eye on her kids. Wow, she looks rough!
My Head: I’m a genius! Maybe I should befriend more well-rested moms.
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In summary, sleep-deprived mothers often feel a mix of envy and camaraderie when hearing about well-rested kids. The struggle is real, and we’re all in this together.
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