As a parent, I often ponder what wisdom I want to pass down to my kids. I’ve started a journal titled “Lessons for My Kids,” which serves as a safety net for those moments when life takes an unexpected turn—like when I’m out for a jog and, well, you never know.
This journal is filled with my candid thoughts and feelings—things I might hesitate to say face-to-face. My goal is for my children to truly understand who I am, beyond just being the one who pays the bills. I want them to know my character, my imperfections, and my beliefs.
Though they aren’t ready to read these lessons just yet, and I hope I have plenty of time before I face any unfortunate events, I thought I would share some entries with you.
- When you enter a crowded parking lot, remember to put your car in reverse and leave. Don’t waste time on your phone. Someone is waiting for that space.
- Losing your temper is something you will always regret. It’s natural to feel anger over certain situations, but reacting impulsively can lead to remorse. Wait until you can express your feelings calmly; you’ll still feel anger but will be in control.
- If you find yourself unable to tip a valet, it’s better to park your own car.
- If something doesn’t sit well with you, it’s likely wrong. Trust your instincts—they’re a powerful guide. Don’t spend too much time rationalizing your feelings or decisions.
- I’ve had too many days filled with regret over things I said in anger. I hope you experience that less than I did—not because you feel less remorse but because you choose kindness more often. Above all, just be kind. Nothing would make me prouder than seeing you embody kindness.
- I’ve loved you since the moment I learned your mother was expecting. But I’ll admit, there have been times I felt overwhelmed. Just keeping it real.
- When speaking with your server, make eye contact. The menu will still be there when they leave.
- What happens in Vegas doesn’t stay there—except maybe your dignity. So hold onto that.
- Your friends may not need your sage advice as much as they need someone to listen. It’s fine if you don’t have the perfect words; being there with an open ear can be just as valuable.
- Consider going to college in a city far from home. Your hometown will always be there. Go explore new cultures, try different foods, savor local wines, get lost in new streets, and maybe even meet someone special who will understand when you want to return home.
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In summary, these lessons reflect my hopes for my children—to be thoughtful, kind, and open-minded as they navigate life’s challenges.