In the world of parenting, it seems that wine has become the go-to relaxant for mothers. From wine sippy cups to specialized bottles marketed for moms, the message is clear: sometimes, a glass (or several) is what it takes to get through those long, chaotic days. But what about those of us who prefer a different way to unwind? Why is there such a stigma surrounding that choice?
Let me share my truth: almost every night, once my children are tucked into bed, I indulge in a little bit of marijuana. Whether it’s a joint, a cannabis-infused treat (which I keep securely stored), or even a hit from a bong, this has been my ritual for the last 15 years. And frankly, I’m tired of feeling guilty about it. Using pot doesn’t make me a bad mother.
I’m not using it to escape reality—I don’t have any medical condition that requires a prescription. I simply relish the sense of relaxation and comfort that comes with a gentle high after a hectic day filled with kids, work, sports practices, homework, and household duties. It serves the same purpose for me as a glass of wine might for someone else.
I’m not an excessive drinker, nor do I misuse medications. I don’t spend my days lounging around in old tie-dye shirts, bingeing on junk food. I’m an engaged mom who participates in the PTA, has a solid career, maintains a joyful marriage, and occasionally forgets my kid’s dance schedule (which, let’s be honest, who hasn’t?). Overall, I’m a functioning member of society who simply happens to enjoy cannabis. So what’s the big deal?
Choosing this lifestyle doesn’t compromise my ethics or threaten my children’s future. Contrary to the common belief that marijuana is a gateway drug, I’ve found it to be one of the healthiest ways to unwind. Unfortunately, when I’ve been honest with other moms, I’ve often faced judgment and skepticism. One mom even refused to let her child play at my house, citing concerns over my “judgment”—coming from someone who openly struggled with addiction to prescription meds.
As a result, I’ve learned to nod along to the mommy wine jokes and fit into that social circle, even if my connection is a bit different. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to grab some snacks; bedtime is approaching!
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In summary, embracing the choices that help us navigate the challenges of motherhood shouldn’t come with shame. Whether it’s wine or weed, we all deserve a way to decompress after a long day.
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