The day begins with a loud wail from the baby. Rushing to let the dogs out, I realize I’ve forgotten to feed them again. After a quick search for shoes and a scoop, I stumble onto the porch to fill their bowls. Meanwhile, my 6-year-old and 4-year-old, who have long been awake, are clamoring for breakfast while glued to their favorite show. I toss in a load of laundry while simultaneously preparing three pieces of toast and a pot of coffee. Just as I sit down, the baby lets the dogs back in, who quickly devour half of the breakfast. The kids burst into tears, and I know I must start all over again.
Being a stay-at-home mom can be quite the challenge. We often find ourselves venting about the endless cycle of caring for children, preparing meals, and managing household chores. It can become monotonous, especially when reading the same bedtime stories over and over. Yet, amidst the chaos, being a SAHM can also be incredibly rewarding and enjoyable. I genuinely cherish the time I spend with my children, and even with my educational background, I can’t imagine doing anything else. I don’t just manage; I flourish.
1. Comfort is Key
I often wear my favorite cozy robe around the house. If there’s no reason to dress up, I don’t!
2. Pajama Days
The kids often stay in their pajamas. Why put them in real clothes when no one else is around to see them?
3. Lean on TV
We lean on the TV for some sanity. Thank you, Chris and Martin Kratt, for providing entertainment and educational content that keeps my kids engaged.
4. Prioritize Reading
Books are another essential. Even if it means reading the same book, like Go, Dog. Go!, repeatedly, we prioritize reading together.
5. Limited Breakfast Options
I offer limited breakfast options: cereal, toast, or oatmeal. Once they make their choice, there are no complaints allowed!
6. Simple Choices
If they don’t eat, they can choose from an apple, banana, or piece of bread—keeping it simple cuts down on fussiness.
7. Quick Lunches
Lunch is quick and easy. I’ve had my share of culinary mishaps (I once set coleslaw on fire!), so I stick with frozen meals or classic PB&J.
8. Stock Up on Snacks
I always stock up on snacks to prevent sudden hunger meltdowns; fruit snacks and rice cakes are lifesavers.
9. Team Effort
My partner handles cleaning, cooking, and dishes. It’s a team effort, and I appreciate his support.
10. Laundry Management
I manage the laundry but don’t bother folding it. Baskets are my solution; who needs dressers when we’re just going to dig through them again?
11. Short Bursts of Cleaning
Cleaning is done in short bursts. I’ll tackle one area at a time, maximizing my time with the kids while still keeping things tidy.
12. Get Outside
We don’t stay indoors all day. Outings to parks, playdates, or shops break up the routine and keep the days enjoyable.
13. Dress Up for Outings
When we venture out, I take the chance to dress up and wear makeup. It’s nice to feel like more than just a mom.
14. Regular Playdates
Regular playdates are essential. I choose friends I enjoy, making it easier to connect with other parents while our kids play.
15. Embrace Creativity
I embrace creativity! Arts and crafts, including glitter and paint, are fun—even if they leave a mess.
16. Playdough Fun
Playdough is a lifesaver for rainy days, providing endless entertainment for the kids.
17. Tub Time
The tub is my secret weapon. I can toss the kids in with some toys and take a breather while they play.
18. Outdoor Time
Outdoor time is a must. Even a short run in the yard allows for some fresh air and exercise—while I supervise from a comfortable spot.
19. Engage in Conversation
Engaging in conversation with my kids is vital. Their thoughts and stories are often surprisingly insightful.
20. Create Inside Jokes
We create inside jokes, which keeps our interactions lively and fun. My youngest calls his brother a “silly goose,” and it never fails to bring laughter.
21. Let It Go
Sometimes, the kids’ rooms look like a tornado hit. I’ve learned to let it go; it’s just a phase.
22. Educational TV
Educational TV shows count as learning! Wild Kratts and other programs are great ways to sneak in some science.
23. Count Down to Breaks
I eagerly await my partner’s return home. I can count down the minutes until he walks in, allowing me a much-needed break.
24. Acknowledge Tough Days
Some days are tough. The kids might bicker, meals may burn, and I might long for a different routine. This is perfectly normal.
25. Celebrate the Great Days
But then there are the great days. We create wonderful art together, cook meals, and I feel incredibly fortunate to be their mom.
I focus on my children, my home, and myself. Our lives are woven together with laughter, challenges, and, yes, a bit of chaos. Some days are miraculous, while others see us glued to the couch in front of a movie. We’re doing our best, and together we thrive.
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Summary
Navigating the journey of being a stay-at-home mom can be challenging yet rewarding. From managing daily routines and meals to embracing creativity and nurturing family connections, there are numerous strategies to not just survive but thrive in this role. With a little creativity, organization, and support, it’s possible to find joy and fulfillment in the everyday chaos of motherhood.