Pregnancy is a transformative experience, not just for the person carrying the child but also for their partner. As a healthcare professional who has witnessed countless journeys through pregnancy, I can share insights on what to steer clear of during this pivotal time.
1. Expressing Disappointment
When your partner mentions the possibility of pregnancy, refrain from expressing disappointment about personal desires. Comments like, “But I wanted a new guitar,” can be disheartening. Remember, this is a shared experience.
2. Offering Support Without Domineering
Offer support without being domineering. While it’s exciting to welcome a child, the physical changes and cravings are happening in your partner’s body. If they crave an entire tub of cream cheese on one chip, it’s perfectly acceptable.
3. Avoiding Alien Comparisons
Avoid making comments about how it feels like there’s an alien inside. Even if it’s a humorous observation, your partner may already feel overwhelmed by the changes and doesn’t need reminders that they’re carrying a life.
4. Assuming They Want to Be the Designated Driver
Never assume your partner is okay with being the designated driver at social events. Pregnancy doesn’t mean they want to endure rowdy crowds for nine months.
5. Steering Clear of Unsolicited Advice
Steer clear of giving unsolicited advice. Whether it’s about food choices, reading material, or clothing, your partner is likely inundated with suggestions from others. Right now, they’re looking for a partner to provide comfort, not further recommendations.
6. Understanding Dietary Restrictions
Never say, “But you love sushi! You can’t eat that?” Understand that dietary restrictions can be tough. If you cook anything that’s off-limits again, it might lead to some serious reconsideration of your choices.
7. Avoiding Dismissive Comments
Comments like, “Maybe you’d feel better if you exercised?” can be dismissive. Remember, tasks like getting up to use the bathroom or walking a few steps can feel like workouts during this time.
8. Responding Enthusiastically
When your partner asks if you want to feel the baby move, don’t hesitate. Always respond with enthusiasm. It’s a unique moment, even if it feels a bit strange.
9. Avoiding Jokes About Weight
Avoid joking about weight differences. Comments like, “Look, we weigh the same!” can be hurtful. If they could reach you, there might be a playful punch coming your way.
10. Being Prepared for Emotional Ups and Downs
Lastly, be prepared for an emotional rollercoaster. Your partner may cry at unexpected moments over commercials or even simple gestures. It’s part of the process—just be there to support them.
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Navigating pregnancy can be a challenge, but with the right support and understanding, it can also be a beautiful journey.
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