In a candid reflection on the challenges of motherhood, Dr. Mia Collins shares her experiences of feeling like a “bad mom” at times. As a single mother to two children, Ellie, 10, and Jake, 4, she understands the constant struggle of balancing work and parenting. In the upcoming issue of Parenting Today, she offers an honest essay about the emotional rollercoaster that comes with raising kids while managing other life responsibilities.
“Some days, I feel like I’m on top of the world, earning the ‘Best Mom’ title,” Dr. Collins writes. “Yet other days, I find myself engaging in odd activities in the quiet corners of my home, realizing I’m actually hiding from my children.” Who hasn’t felt that way? It’s a common sentiment among parents, often accompanied by waves of guilt.
There are moments when you want to cherish every second with your children, fully aware that childhood is fleeting. The thought that your little ones will grow up and no longer cling to you can be heart-wrenching. However, there are also days when hearing “Mommy” one too many times feels like it might send you over the edge.
“Sure, I help with homework, but let’s be honest—sometimes I’d rather binge-watch my favorite series than tackle math problems,” Dr. Collins admits. This kind of honesty is refreshing and relatable, reminding fellow parents that they aren’t alone in their feelings of boredom or frustration.
Motherhood is undoubtedly filled with magical moments, but it can also be monotonous and overwhelming at times. Acknowledging this doesn’t make one a bad mom; it simply affirms our humanity. “Even though the nurturing side of me is strong, I also have ambitions beyond motherhood,” Dr. Collins reflects. “I refuse to feel guilty for wanting both—being a mother and pursuing my passions. Society’s outdated views on gender roles shouldn’t dictate how we feel.”
Indeed, being a mom is just one facet of our identities. It’s perfectly okay to desire more from life, to sometimes seek solitude, and to embrace our humanity.
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In summary, Dr. Collins’ reflections serve as a reminder that it’s perfectly natural to navigate the ups and downs of motherhood. Whether feeling overwhelmed or seeking a moment of peace, these experiences make us all human.