Dear Kids,
In the unfortunate event that I don’t make it back from my yoga class tomorrow (yes, the one my so-called “friends” convinced me to attend), I want to share some vital lessons that you should carry with you through life.
Love,
Mom
-
Avoid Being a Jerk.
The first and foremost piece of advice I can give you is to never be a jerk. A jerk is someone who thinks they are superior to others and disregards their feelings. Just think about it: history is full of jerks—those who commit atrocities and those who exclude others. You’ll encounter jerks in all walks of life, whether at school, in your social circles, or even during family gatherings. -
Don’t Assume You Know Everything.
While some people may act poorly due to their nature, many are shaped by their backgrounds and experiences. When someone behaves unkindly, remember that you don’t know their story. Be generous with second chances, but if their behavior doesn’t change, it’s time to move on. -
Stand Up for Yourself.
If a bully crosses your path, don’t hesitate to stand your ground. Your teacher might encourage you to use words, but assert your boundaries too. You might say something like, “Hey, I don’t want trouble, but if you hit me again, I will hit back.” If they persist, defend yourself. You’ve done your part to communicate. -
Never Say ‘I Couldn’t…’
Life is unpredictable. You never know how you might react in challenging situations, so refrain from judging others too quickly. Everyone has their battles, and sometimes they react in ways that are foreign to us. -
Steer Clear of Drugs.
Look at the outcomes of those who’ve chosen that path—do any of them seem positive? The music legends might have had their moments, but the truth is, drugs rarely lead to good things.
Now, let’s move on to some “DO”s:
-
Check Yourself Before You Go Out.
Always make sure your teeth are clean, your shoes are free from anything embarrassing, and your zipper is up. A true friend gives you a heads-up when something’s not right. -
Pass the Ball.
In sports, don’t just pass to the star player. Include everyone, even if they might fumble. Everyone deserves a chance to feel like a vital part of the team. -
Surround Yourself With True Friends.
Embrace your quirks and flaws. Find those who accept you just as you are. Life is too short to hide the real you from those who matter most. -
Say Yes to Dancing.
When someone asks you to dance, take the plunge! It’s just a dance, not a marriage proposal. Don’t let fear hold you back from joining in the fun. -
Listen to Your Elders Occasionally.
We’ve been through ups and downs, made mistakes, and learned valuable lessons. Our experiences shape our wisdom, so don’t dismiss our advice outright.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to prepare for my yoga class that I’m definitely not looking forward to.
For more insights on family and parenting, check out this article. And if you’re curious about home insemination options, visit Make a Mom for expert guidance. Also, the CDC provides valuable information on pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary:
In this heartfelt note, a mother shares essential life lessons with her children, emphasizing kindness, self-advocacy, and the importance of genuine friendships. She encourages them to make wise choices and to embrace their true selves while providing resources for further understanding of family planning.