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- These Are the Moms I Admire
by Dr. Clara Thompson
Updated: March 19, 2021
Originally Published: March 11, 2016
In the realm of motherhood, one cardinal rule often echoes: avoid comparisons. Yet, as parents, especially mothers, it’s nearly impossible to refrain from measuring ourselves against others. Spending countless hours with fellow moms and their children inevitably leads to wondering, “Is she just a more capable mom, or does she have an easier child?”
Deep down, I understand that every child has their unique challenges, and I’m doing my utmost to navigate the ups and downs of parenting. However, the reality remains that our children often reflect who we are to the outside world. If my child is acting out, does that mean I’m failing as a parent?
Well, my little ones have their moments of chaos, so I often choose to sidestep that question. My kids are incredible, and I cherish their fiery spirits, but some days, I find myself exclaiming, “You can’t be serious?” as my son debates the amount of sand in the sandbox. Every day presents its own challenges, and I’ve found myself envying moms I never thought I would once I embarked on this parenting journey. Here are the mothers I wouldn’t mind switching places with for just one day:
- Moms Whose Kids Stay Calm in Shopping Carts
It’s almost comical how grocery stores present these delightful, race-car-style carts, as if they’re giving us a free pass to a day of ease. Yet, my experience is far from that serene picture. While I’m wrestling a cart that’s more like a tank through the store, one child is screaming while trying to wiggle free, and the other has decided to make a daring escape. Meanwhile, I can’t help but watch as another mom glides effortlessly by, her child steering the cart with a grin, while mine is filled with enough snacks to feed a small army. - Moms Whose Kids Hold Hands When Walking
The day my son decided to evade my grip while crossing the street was a turning point. Suddenly, his hands were slippery, and he was darting around me like a wild animal. I’ve often found myself wishing for a leash to keep him close. Even when he does hold my hand, it’s a battle of wiggling limbs, while I pass by other mothers with their children walking peacefully side by side, prompting my son to exclaim, “Look, Mom, they’re being safe!” The irony is almost too much to bear. - Moms Whose Kids Embrace Grooming
Have you ever attempted to convince a child to brush their teeth or hair? It’s akin to asking them to stick a hot poker in their mouth. No flavor of toothpaste or whimsical toothbrush can sway my little ones. It’s a constant battle that often leaves me wishing there were a salon that served cocktails to ease the pain of these daily struggles. - Moms Whose Kids Eat Varied Foods
I get it; pickiness is a rite of passage for children. But after trying every trick in the book, from smoothies to sneaky cookie recipes, I’ve realized my son is the ultimate food critic. His royal highness inspects every meal like a Michelin star judge, often declaring it unworthy. The advice to let him go hungry until he eats just doesn’t apply here; he could outlast anyone. As I watch other kids munch happily, my son is in tears, proclaiming he’s “starving,” with his meal untouched. - Moms Whose Kids Leave Places Without Chaos
Getting my kids back to the car is akin to a scene from a disaster movie. It’s as if I’m pulling them from Disneyland itself. Despite multiple warnings, when it’s time to leave, the meltdown begins. Staff members often have to assist in coaxing my little ones out of their hideouts. I can’t help but question why I even ventured out. Yet, amidst the chaos, I find solace in the moments of laughter and joy that come with being their mom.
These experiences were beyond my imagination before motherhood. I never anticipated the daily battles over simple tasks like eating or grooming. My children are little critics who often leave me bewildered, yet they also know how to melt my heart with a spontaneous hug or a dandelion. While I do envy the moms whose kids seem to take life in stride, I’ve learned to embrace the beautiful chaos of parenting, finding joy in each unexpected moment.
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Summary
Motherhood is a journey filled with comparisons, challenges, and moments of joy. While I often find myself admiring other moms whose children seem more compliant, I’ve come to appreciate the unique chaos my kids bring into my life. Their spirited nature, although testing at times, fills my days with laughter and unexpected love.