Dear Michael,
It’s hard to believe that our little boy is already approaching his first birthday. We talked about it just the other night, astonished at how swiftly this year has flown by.
I can still remember that moment when I called you, my voice trembling with a mix of excitement and nerves, to let you know that I was heading to the hospital because our baby was on the way. You met me there, having cut your shift short, still in scrubs, and your presence instantly calmed my anxious heart.
It’s surreal to think that nearly a year has passed since that rainy spring morning when our son entered this world. In this time, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing your transformation into a father, a role you embraced the moment he was born.
I’ll never forget the afternoon you changed his diaper for the first time, showing no signs of hesitation. That night, when his cries woke us from a deep sleep, it was you who sprang into action, guiding me through the bleary darkness of our hospital room.
On our third day at the hospital, when we learned that our son wouldn’t be discharged with us due to jaundice, I leaned on you as the weight of that news hit me. While I shed tears of worry, you stood strong, a beacon of support.
We faced challenges together, especially with breastfeeding. You listened intently to the lactation consultants and helped me navigate each hurdle. While I pumped tirelessly to increase my milk supply, you offered unwavering support, visiting our son in the nursery and bringing me comfort. When I felt overwhelmed seeing him so fragile in his incubator, you held my hand and cracked jokes to lighten the mood, reminding me that this moment, too, would pass.
And pass it did. As I adjusted to the whirlwind of motherhood—sleepless nights, postpartum struggles, and endless feedings—you remained by my side, starting your journey as a father alongside me. During those early weeks, I appreciated you as a person in desperate need of sustenance in a vast desert. Our moments together felt like a lifeline, but I couldn’t fully grasp how pivotal you were in our new family dynamic.
Seeing you as a father has illuminated so many reasons why I fell in love with you. Our little one has transformed from a tiny baby into a spirited little man, and I’ve loved noticing your traits reflected in him. From his curly dark hair and bright eyes to his fearless spirit, I’m overjoyed knowing that the best parts of you are also in him.
You’ve approached fatherhood as if uncovering a hidden talent. While I was still getting used to the reality of our new life, you created sweet nicknames for our boy and established traditions that brought joy to our days. You made bath time an adventure, warming the room and playing baby classical music, while I worried about every little detail. You turned our home into a safe and fun space, even when I was struggling.
You recognized that a mother’s love is often accompanied by guilt, and you were there to assure me that it was okay. With thoughtful gestures, like sweet notes and surprises, you showed me that it was fine to take care of myself.
Naturally, we faced challenges along the way. I had heard from friends that a new baby could strain a marriage, but in those initial days after our son’s birth, I couldn’t imagine ever feeling upset with you. Yet, the long days and sleep-deprived nights sometimes tested our patience, particularly when you returned to work and I was left to focus solely on our tiny human.
Nevertheless, as we settled into our new roles, our bond only grew stronger. When I returned to work after maternity leave, it was you who comforted me through my tears, reminding me that our son would always be my baby. Your support allowed me to let go of control and accept help when I needed it most.
Thanks to you, I know we’ll always navigate these challenges together. You’ve ensured that I never felt guilty about taking time for myself, and I’m grateful for your kindness.
As our son has flourished this past year, I’ve grown, too—thanks to both him and you. Michael, I still can’t believe that nearly a year has gone by since you became a father, but I’m so grateful to have shared this journey with you.
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In summary, this past year has been a whirlwind of joy and challenges, but through it all, your unwavering support has been my anchor. I look forward to many more adventures together as our family continues to grow.