Updated: Sep. 28, 2020
Originally Published: Feb. 6, 2016
As a pediatrician and a parent, I often find myself marveling at the innocence and sweetness encapsulated in early childhood. My youngest child embodies this spirit perfectly—a chubby little cherub whose smile radiates pure joy. With cheeks that dimple and a head full of soft curls, he truly resembles an angel. I sometimes wonder if we should have named him something like Leo to match his adorable demeanor. His friendly nature and round cheeks draw in everyone around him, transforming ordinary moments into delightful exchanges.
In the grocery store, his cheerful “Hi! Hi! Hi!” echoes through the aisles, and it’s impossible not to notice how he easily captivates the attention of those around him. Elderly ladies with nostalgic smiles stop to bask in his enthusiasm, while worn-out men in work clothes chuckle at his exuberance. Each interaction strengthens the bond between my son and the world, reminding me of the innate charm that children possess.
Yet, amid these heartwarming moments, I can’t help but ponder the challenges of parenting. Thoughts occasionally creep in about whether I’ve raised the most restless sleepers or if my children have discovered hidden energy sources, like a stash of energy drinks. I wrestle with questions about my parenting style and wonder if I’m doing it all right. Still, those fleeting moments of sweetness are treasures I wish I could bottle up for the future when I, too, will be the older woman in the grocery store, smiling at little ones.
As I observe my boys growing up, I realize that time is fleeting. They will inevitably transition from cherubic toddlers to self-conscious teens, swapping the innocent allure of their baby years for the complexities of adolescence. I know this because I have witnessed my own transformation from an adorable child to an awkward teenager. I worry that the world will forget the delightful little smiles that once graced their faces, as I often see the older, hardened versions of children in the news or on the street.
Growing up is a bittersweet journey, where the innocence of youth gives way to the profound realities of life. While I dread this change, I also embrace it. Though the sweet scent of newborns fades, it is replaced by milestones like first steps and words—each a beautiful testament to their development. They are finding their identities, and although they will encounter flaws along the way, their worth remains unchanged.
The memories of their baby years will forever linger in my mind. When they become tall, sometimes grumpy adolescents, I hope the world continues to see the sweetness they once embodied. Their ability to charm with a smile may fade, but their intrinsic value will always persist.
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In summary, parenthood is a delightful yet challenging journey filled with moments of sweetness that deserve to be cherished. As our children grow, we must remember the love and innocence they once embodied, valuing them for who they are becoming.