As a physician and a parent, I often find myself reflecting on the messages we expose our children to, especially in today’s tumultuous world. With recent national events and the ongoing discussions about safety and violence, I’ve become increasingly cautious about the media I allow my kids to consume. Instead of providing comfort, the news often heightens my anxiety, making me more protective of my children.
In our current climate, where parents are routinely teaching their children to be vigilant in public spaces, I wonder if it’s wise to take them to see films that delve into heavy themes. I thought I was making a safe choice by taking my son to watch the animated feature “The Good Dinosaur.” Initially rated PG, I assumed it would be light-hearted and fun, similar to other family favorites like “Frozen.”
However, as the story unfolded, I was taken aback by its dark elements: the loss of a parent, perilous situations, and the harsh realities of nature. My son, usually composed, was overwhelmed by emotion halfway through, wiping away tears as he processed the film’s intense scenes. It left me questioning the judgment behind such storytelling aimed at young audiences.
Why do filmmakers feel compelled to introduce such heavy themes at a time when children are already facing so many real-world challenges? It’s disheartening to witness young viewers grappling with the loss depicted on-screen, especially when they’re in a space meant for escapism and joy. The emotional weight of these narratives can be too much for children who should be allowed to enjoy their innocence without the burden of adult themes.
While I appreciate the value of empathy, it’s crucial to recognize when to shield our kids from overwhelming realities. I want my children to learn about the world gradually, not be confronted with its harshness during a simple trip to the movies. As a parent, I now plan to utilize resources like Common Sense Media and Healthline to ensure I’m making informed decisions regarding the films we watch together.
In place of intense narratives, I’ll opt for films that guarantee a trauma-free experience, such as “The Peanuts Movie” or “Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Road Chip.” After all, in a world increasingly filled with safety drills and anxiety, creating a protective bubble around our children can be one of the most meaningful resolutions we can keep.
In summary, as we navigate parenting in a complex world, let’s prioritize the emotional well-being of our children by choosing age-appropriate films that allow them to enjoy their childhood without unnecessary emotional burdens.