I recognize that motherhood has completely transformed your world. I understand the whirlwind of responsibilities you juggle daily, and I want to reassure you that I’m not here to add to your stress.
I can see the guilt in your eyes when your child interrupts our conversation for the umpteenth time or when your toddler suddenly announces they need to use the bathroom. I know you feel uneasy when your baby starts to fuss yet again, and you wonder if I’m patient enough to wait while you put the kids to bed. I hear your apologies when a text or call goes unanswered for days, and I want to tell you: there’s no need to apologize.
Your children are just being kids. Babies cry, toddlers have their accidents, and children thrive on routines. This is the essence of life, and I want you to know that I embrace it all as your friend.
If we shared sleepovers and movie nights in the past, I’m still the same friend now that you’re navigating motherhood. If we enjoyed wine and deep conversations before, I’m still here to connect, even if our meet-ups involve playgrounds and endless interruptions. Your life as a mom is part of who you are, and I cherish that.
Friendship is about sharing life’s ups and downs, and that includes the beautiful chaos of parenting. I’m perfectly fine with our hangouts now consisting of playdates and laughter amidst the mess. You don’t need to strive for perfection. It’s normal for your home to be filled with toys and for you to be in the middle of laundry. In fact, I’m more than willing to help out! Just as we assisted each other in the past, I’m here for you now.
I never expected you to be flawless, and I still don’t. So breathe easy and know that I welcome your chaos just as you welcome mine. While my challenges may not involve diapers and nap times, they exist in their own form.
I care about you deeply and what matters in your life, even if it differs from my own. Let’s continue to walk through life together, no matter how it looks at this moment.
So, my dear friend, you don’t owe me any apologies. What I truly appreciate is when you check in on me just as I do for you. And honestly, if our conversation is interrupted by your little ones, that’s completely okay.
With love,
Your Childless Friend
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In summary, please remember that you have my unwavering support, and there’s no need for guilt or apologies.