As a pediatrician and a parent, I often find myself surprised by the depth of inquiry that can come from a young child. Recently, my five-year-old son, Ethan, caught me off guard with a profound question: “Mom, why am I here? What’s my purpose in this world?” I had expected him to be preoccupied with toys or snacks, not pondering existential concepts.
His question sent me into a momentary panic. What do you say to a child grappling with such heavy thoughts? It’s heartbreaking to see him struggle with these ideas, especially when they disrupt his sleep. I can relate; as an adult, I’ve stared into the darkness of the night, wrestling with my own uncertainties.
I remember my own childhood vividly, grappling with similar questions. I’d lie awake, heart racing, overwhelmed by thoughts of eternity and existence. I would often sneak into my parents’ room, seeking comfort, just like Ethan does now, looking for reassurance that everything would be alright.
When Ethan first asked his question, I was taken aback. Five-year-olds, in my mind, were supposed to be immersed in their imaginative play, not contemplating life’s big mysteries. Yet here he was, reflecting on his significance in the world, and it was clear he was a thinker—much like I was at that age.
I wish I could provide him with all the answers; however, the truth is, that little girl who once feared the unknown grew into a woman still navigating her own uncertainties. Like many adults, I often find myself at a crossroads of belief and doubt, wishing for the simplicity of unwavering faith.
In that moment, when Ethan looked to me for guidance, I shared with him that he is here because we needed someone to love. I explained that he brings joy to our lives and that he’s here to love his siblings, even when they can be a bit annoying. I told him that life’s purpose can be quite simple: it’s about loving and being loved. Though I wish I had deeper insights to share with him, I felt that perhaps, in the midst of our uncertainties, love remains the most significant answer we can hold onto.
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In summary, while I may not have all the answers to life’s big questions, I do believe that focusing on love can lead us through the uncertainties we face.