Updated: April 29, 2023
Originally Published: December 24, 2015
Yes, you read that right! Before you dismiss this notion as absurd, let me clarify: I fully acknowledge the significant differences between dogs and babies. As a parent to both—a loving canine and a tiny human—I can assure you that while the responsibilities may vary, the skills you develop from dog ownership can be surprisingly beneficial for impending parenthood.
Many couples often choose to get a dog before taking the leap into raising a child. Some believe that managing a puppy helps to sharpen their nurturing abilities, while others anticipate that the rigorous schedule of potty training may prepare them for those sleepless nights of infant care. However, as amusing as it sounds, a Milk Bone will hardly pacify a fussy baby. Yet the experience of having a dog can offer essential lessons for future parenting.
1. They Rely on You for Everything
Keeping a living being alive is no small feat. Just like children, dogs depend on their owners for everything from food to affection. Unfortunately, there isn’t a comprehensive guidebook for dog owners or parents, which is a shame since many would gladly purchase one. The challenges of dog care will teach you how to be attuned to the needs of another creature, whether it’s figuring out why your dog suddenly decided to dig through the trash or managing the emotional needs of your child.
Both dogs and children require socialization, regular meals, discipline, and unconditional love—all of which significantly impact their overall well-being. So, treat your pets well; their training can help set the groundwork for raising a happy and healthy child.
2. They Help You Navigate the Chaos
Children can be the masters of unpredictability, often turning simple plans into chaotic scenarios. If you think you can wear your favorite white shirt after giving birth, think again—spills are inevitable. Just as you learn to accept the delightful disorder that comes with dog ownership, you’ll be better equipped to face the delightful chaos of parenting.
Your home will never be as pristine as it was before you adopted a dog. Accepting this reality is essential. Similarly, during the early days of parenthood, you might feel like you’re juggling numerous tasks while trying to keep your dog entertained. Embracing this chaos is crucial; patience with both your partner and your children will make all the difference.
3. They Teach You to Prioritize Another’s Needs
Owning a dog often means making personal sacrifices—whether it’s spending a portion of your paycheck on premium dog food or altering your social life to accommodate your furry friend. This experience is invaluable when it comes to parenthood. The love we have for our pets often translates into a willingness to put their needs above our own, which is a fundamental aspect of being a parent.
For instance, I’ve even laid my coat over a puddle to help my dog cross the street safely. Years later, I would use that same coat to comfort my child during a chilly flight. The essence of parenthood is about making sacrifices willingly because of love, and this instinct is nurtured through caring for a pet.
Raising a dog has opened my eyes to the transformative journey of parenthood. It has prepared me for the challenges and joys that come with nurturing a child, and for that, I am genuinely grateful.
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Summary
Having a dog can prepare you for parenthood in unexpected ways. From learning responsibility and embracing chaos to prioritizing the needs of another, the skills developed in pet ownership can help ease the transition into raising a child.