When I was a child, Santa Claus was a cornerstone of our holiday celebrations. My parents believed in creating a magical Christmas experience, going to great lengths to ensure my siblings and I felt the wonder of the season. This included a personal visit from Santa himself.
Every Christmas Eve, after attending a children’s service at church, we would enjoy a light meal, slip into our brand-new pajamas, and be tucked into bed—always before 8 p.m. It’s an understatement to say falling asleep was a challenge; the anticipation of Santa visiting our home to leave gifts was electric! My mom would always remind us that the sooner we slept, the sooner Santa would arrive. Somehow, we managed to drift off each year.
In the wee hours of the night, my mom would wake us, urging us to get up quickly because Santa was about to leave. We were told to listen for the reindeer on the roof—a clever ruse involving my dad tossing small stones from the backyard. We could hear Santa’s booming voice from downstairs, wishing us a Merry Christmas.
With sleepy eyes, we would make our way down the stairs, clinging to our mom. There, at the bottom, Santa awaited us, greeting us by name and praising our good behavior before handing out presents. We would begin unwrapping our gifts, still in a state of awe.
In the midst of the excitement, we often didn’t realize my dad was absent until he burst through the door, having rushed to the nearest convenience store to buy ice—an annual oversight that left him missing Santa’s grand reveal. When I turned eight, however, something shifted. Classmates began suggesting that Santa was merely a figment of our imagination, and I felt compelled to clarify this with my mom.
I approached her with curiosity, asking if Santa was indeed real. I was confident she would affirm his existence, given our traditions. To my surprise, she explained that while Santa embodies the spirit of Christmas, the man in the red suit was just a delightful tale. She asked me to keep this revelation secret from my younger sisters and other kids, believing they should discover the truth on their own. This promise remained unbroken for years.
Fast forward to this year. My youngest son, now ten, was at the age where I worried he might start doubting Santa. I sensed he might know more than he let on, but he never rushed to confirm it. During a recent conversation about the holidays, I mentioned that Santa represents the spirit of the season, not a man living in the North Pole.
“Oh, okay. I know that,” he replied casually. Relief washed over me, and I reminded him to keep this information to himself, especially from his younger cousins who still believed.
“Mom, I know Santa is Grandpa,” he said nonchalantly.
“Oh, you do?” I asked, surprised. “Well, please don’t tell your cousins.”
“I won’t. When’s dinner?” he replied, shifting the topic.
It dawned on me that for my children, Santa would always be real. They see him every Christmas Eve, just as I did. While he may not reside in the North Pole, their grandfather dons the red suit each year, with help from their grandmother, ensuring their Christmas is a little brighter. My mother was right: Santa embodies the spirit of giving, a legacy worth passing down to future generations.
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Summary
The essence of Santa Claus transcends the traditional narrative for my family. It’s not just about the gifts or the man in a red suit; it’s about the spirit of giving and creating cherished memories. Our family’s unique traditions ensure that Santa remains a vibrant part of our holiday celebrations, reminding us that the true magic of Christmas lies in love and connection.