In today’s society, there is a growing sentiment that we have become overly protective of our youth, leading to a generation perceived as entitled and overly sensitive. This notion is echoed by many who believe that the resilience and work ethic seen in earlier generations, particularly those who lived through the Great Depression and World Wars, have diminished.
Recently, Dr. Samuel Langston, the President of Evergreen University, has voiced his concerns regarding this trend in a bold open letter titled “This Is Not a Daycare! It’s a University!” In it, he expresses his frustrations with students who exhibit a victim mentality whenever they encounter criticism. He believes that we have entered an era of excessive political correctness where students view any challenge to their views or feelings as an attack. Dr. Langston asserts that such reactions are detrimental to personal growth, stating, “When confronted with uncomfortable truths, instead of retaliating or running to a parent, students should reflect on whether there is validity in the feedback.”
This perspective resonates with many, including some high-profile figures who have acknowledged that we are raising a generation that struggles to cope with adversity. It is crucial for parents to balance protection with the need to cultivate strength and independence in their children. While it’s natural for parents to defend their kids, the ultimate goal should be to prepare them for the real world, where they will inevitably face challenges.
Dr. Langston’s assertions may be rooted in his Christian beliefs, linking personal accountability to moral growth, but the message is universal: when faced with criticism, one should assess whether there is room for improvement rather than defaulting to feeling victimized.
Humor, too, is at risk in this climate. Comedians like Chris Rock and Jerry Seinfeld have opted out of college campuses, fearing backlash due to the stringent adherence to political correctness. This raises important questions about the need for humor and light-heartedness in our lives, especially as we navigate difficult times.
To college students everywhere, it’s essential to recognize that not every setback is a personal attack. While genuine instances of victimization do occur, having a paper returned with a low grade due to last-minute efforts does not constitute victimhood. It’s imperative to approach such situations with maturity and a constructive mindset.
As Dr. Langston aptly puts it, “This is a place where you will quickly learn that you need to grow up.” College should be a time for personal development and resilience. And while it’s important to engage in serious discussions about respect and inclusivity, it’s equally vital to maintain a sense of humor and perspective.
In conclusion, while the challenges of modern parenting and education are complex, the call for students to embrace accountability and maturity is a message worth heeding. For additional insights on navigating parenthood and fertility, you can explore resources at Progyny, or check out this informative piece on couples’ fertility journeys. And for those interested in home insemination, our other blog post can be found here.