It was a day like no other, not marked by monumental achievements or life-altering events, but rather by a significant personal milestone in the quaint town of Burlington, Vermont. I attended my very first Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meeting.
For the past six months of my sobriety, I had resisted joining a meeting for a multitude of reasons. I believed attending AA wasn’t for someone like me. I thought, “I’m just a person who decided to stop drinking. I can handle this on my own.” Yet, as I reflect on those thoughts, I realize they were just lies I told myself—similar to the deceptive notions that fueled my drinking. One of my favorites? “Life would be so much easier if I could just have a drink without the consequences.” I said that often, as if it were a rational justification. The list of lies I spun was extensive—more extensive than the length of the Great Wall of China.
This morning, as I sat in that meeting, I encountered individuals who had faced their struggles and emerged with honesty and strength. One of my excuses for avoiding this particular meeting—though highly recommended by a friend—was its 8 a.m. start time. Typically, I would still be in my pajamas, sipping coffee, battling the fatigue of Hashimoto’s disease. However, I managed to rise early today, and in an uncharacteristic burst of productivity, I even cleaned the bathrooms while waiting for my coffee to brew. It was as if a part of me knew I needed to be there.
During the hour-long session, I felt a sense of belonging without feeling overwhelmed. It struck me how alcohol had fostered a culture of dishonesty in my life. I often used writing as an excuse to drink and then drank to justify my writing. But six months into my recovery, I find that I genuinely enjoy writing now, both the process and the product. And let me dispel another myth: life without hangovers isn’t a cakewalk. It’s challenging, but I’ve learned to face that challenge head-on.
At the meeting, I mustered the courage to utter words I had vowed never to say: “Hello, my name is Emily, and I’m an alcoholic.” Surprisingly, it was more difficult to hold back those words than to let them flow freely. Listening to the stories of struggle and humor from others in the group was enlightening. I realized that I truly belong among them.
By 9 a.m., I walked away with a blue chip to commemorate my six months of sobriety. Just a week ago, I would have dismissed those chips as trivial, but I cradled this one as if it were a rare treasure. Later that day, I decided to share my experience with my 12-year-old daughter. She listened intently and shared how my past drinking habits made her feel neglected. It was a painful truth to hear, and even more so to write down, but my love for her compels me to confront these realities.
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In conclusion, the path to sobriety is filled with challenges, but it also opens doors to honesty, connection, and healing.