Dear Kids,
As I sit down to write this, you’re still quite young—just 1.5 and 3 years old. Yet, even at this tender age, you can navigate a tablet far better than I can. You are part of a generation that will grow up immersed in technology.
When I was a child, we didn’t have the luxury of apps or constant connectivity. We survived without smartphones and the internet. Our home phones were tethered to the wall, and if we needed to call someone away from home, we had to find a “pay phone,” an antiquated concept today.
There was no Google or Siri to answer our questions instantly. If we wanted to learn something new, we relied on libraries, navigating card catalogs and encyclopedias to uncover the answers. We also didn’t have GPS—asking for directions or unfolding a huge paper map was the norm.
Who knows how technology will evolve by the time you read this? Maybe you’ll be too occupied with navigating a world run by robots to even glance at this letter! However, I have some thoughts on growing up in an era of instant information:
First, know when to disconnect.
Sure, there will be plenty of opportunities to engage with phones, video games, and screens, but moderation is key. You won’t remember your most-liked social media post, but you will cherish the meaningful memories you create.
Second, embrace real social interactions.
It’s common to see teens gathered together, yet absorbed in their phones rather than each other. Remember the value of eye contact and genuine conversations with those around you.
Third, courtesy is crucial.
Treat others how you wish to be treated. A simple smile, a kind word, and saying “please” and “thank you” can go a long way.
Anonymity online is no excuse for poor behavior. Many people say hurtful things behind a screen that they wouldn’t dare say face-to-face. Live by the principle of treating everyone with respect, regardless of the medium.
Be your own advocate.
Steer clear of the toxic corners of the Internet, particularly the comments sections. While it’s great to stand up for your beliefs, not every disagreement deserves your energy.
Make smart and safe choices.
Think long-term about what you share online. And for goodness sake, don’t send risqué photos. You never know where they might end up.
Find joy in reading.
Preferably from paper books, if they still exist in the future. Even when it feels tedious, keep reading until you discover that book that lights a fire within you. Once you find it, don’t let that passion fade.
Develop your writing skills.
In a world filled with emojis and shorthand, clear communication still matters. Master your spelling and grammar; they’ll serve you well in life. And please, avoid using “u” for “you” outside of texting!
Seek out what makes life special for you.
Cultivate your creativity through music and art. Surround yourself with friends who uplift and inspire you.
Finally, make time for adventures.
Get outside and experience the world firsthand! Don’t just settle for looking at pictures; feel the earth beneath your feet and let it remind you of your place in the vast universe.
In this age of instant answers, I hope you maintain your curiosity about life. Learn through experiences and be present in those moments. Who knows, maybe teleportation or flying cars will be a reality by then, allowing you to explore even more of what the world has to offer.
With all my love,
Mom
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In summary, as you navigate this tech-savvy world, balance is essential. Embrace real connections, practice kindness, and keep a thirst for knowledge and adventure alive.