As mothers, we often strive to set a positive example for our children, but sometimes that involves hiding certain truths. Here are 13 things that many moms keep under wraps.
- Sweets Stash: Whether it’s chocolate or any indulgence, moms often sneak treats away from their kids. I’ve seen friends dart into the kitchen during bath time, wolfing down a candy bar before returning to supervise, all while trying to suppress any visible chewing. I, too, have tiptoed past my kids’ rooms at night with ice cream hidden under my arm, just to enjoy a moment of peace in front of the TV.
- Morning After Effects: After a night out, I often mask the effects of a hangover with fake enthusiasm. “Of course, sweetie! Let’s watch your favorite show,” I say, while internally battling a pounding headache and desperately searching for water and pain relief.
- Frayed Nerves: Kids can test your patience like nothing else. I often feel my temper about to snap, but I keep it in check, hoping my children never realize just how close I am to losing it.
- Hidden Fears: From worries about car accidents to safety concerns at school, moms often hide their fears from their kids, trying to maintain a brave face for everyone’s sake.
- Personal Struggles: Ironically, while we aim to raise well-rounded children, we may feel we’re falling short ourselves. I often employ a “fake it till you make it” approach, hoping to model patience and kindness even when I’m not feeling it.
- Marital Tensions: Quiet disagreements behind closed doors are common, and many moms prefer to keep these struggles hidden from their children.
- Double Standards: I frequently remind my kids that too many sweets aren’t good for them, even as I push thoughts of my own dessert binge out of mind.
- Phone Time: Who hasn’t snuck a few minutes on their phone while in the bathroom, quickly stashing it away before rejoining their kids?
- Intimate Moments: When a child knocks on the bedroom door, it’s not uncommon to shout, “Mommy and Daddy are napping!” as we desperately hope we remembered to lock the door.
- Annoying Toys: “Where’s that noisy monkey?” I’ll say, all while knowing I’ve quietly disposed of the drum-playing nuisance to reclaim some peace.
- Our Own Screen Time: I strive to limit my kids’ screen time, but my own usage often tells a different story—thank goodness they go to bed early!
- Halloween Candy: With an abundance of candy around, some inevitably disappears. It starts with a high cabinet and can end up in the trash or our stomachs, depending on the treat.
- Family Dynamics: We often maintain a polite front with family members who may not be our favorites, like Auntie Sue, who has a habit of criticizing us. We’d rather bite our tongues than ruin family gatherings.
While we wish to be transparent with our children, we also deserve our own privacy. Sometimes, that entails a fib or two. As I write this, I’m keeping a bowl of caramel popcorn hidden from my kids, and I’m eagerly anticipating Halloween for the next round of secrets!
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In summary, while we aim to be honest and open with our children, there are certain things we feel compelled to keep private. Balancing honesty with the need for personal space is a challenge many moms face.