Before entering the world of motherhood, I had a few misconceptions about breastfeeding, heavily influenced by various advocacy groups. I believed that nursing was a seamless experience, devoid of discomfort. I envisioned a harmonious scenario where my baby would always latch easily and I could nurse while multitasking—perhaps even while cooking dinner or typing on my laptop.
As a proud member of the breastfeeding community, I can now attest that this wasn’t the case for everyone. Especially when dealing with a baby who has reflux, nighttime nursing can become a complex challenge. Fortunately, I’ve developed a practical 21-step routine that might help you navigate this journey.
- Awaken to Soft Sounds: Start by listening for those gentle coos and grunts. Be quick to rise before the situation escalates into full-blown crying.
- Navigate the Darkness: Carefully make your way to the rocking chair, avoiding any light that might disturb your little one. Secure the Boppy pillow around your waist, and gather all necessary supplies—burp cloths, wipes, and towels.
- Hydration is Key: Politely ask your partner to fetch you a glass of water. Nursing can create an insatiable thirst, akin to that time you went for a long hike in the sun or maybe even that other time you lost track of your water intake.
- Time to Nurse: Bring your baby to your breast with gentle care.
- Decoding Baby’s Signals: After a few peaceful moments, your baby may show signs of distress. Look for cues: Is he still hungry? Did he drink too much air along with his milk? Is he simply rooting?
- Re-latch: Offer the breast once more.
- Oops!: Prepare for an unexpected eruption. As milk makes a surprise exit, it becomes clear that burping is necessary. In a rush, try to position him upright while managing the milk disaster.
- Burp Time: Tap gently on his back, fully aware that you may end up with a wet shoulder in the process.
- Changing Station: In the dark, shuffle over to the changing table. His pajamas are now soaked, and you’re greeted with a surprise—his diaper is full.
- Diaper Changes: As you swap out the wet diaper, brace yourself for unexpected splashes.
- Light it Up: Turn on the light for a better view.
- Quick Cleanup: Secure the new diaper and do a fast cleanup of any wet surfaces nearby with a baby wipe.
- Fresh Pajamas: Wrestle your baby into dry pajamas, hoping the process is swift.
- Bassinet Time: Place him back in his bassinet, but be prepared—turning on the light may have awakened him fully.
- Steal a Moment: Ignore the wakefulness for just 15 minutes. Is that too much to ask? Retreat to your bed, feeling defeated yet hopeful.
- Listen for Trouble: If you hear sputtering, it’s time to panic. Your baby might be choking. Wipe the mess quickly to keep him comfortable.
- Back to Bed: Try to lie down again.
- Repeat Cycle: After 15 minutes, be prepared for round two. He’s likely hungry again.
- Nurse Again: Once more, go through the routine—steps can be repeated in any order now.
- Let it Go: Sometimes, you’ll decide that it’s perfectly fine to let him sleep in a soggy diaper with remnants of milk on his face.
- Tomorrow’s a New Day: Remind yourself that it’s just one night, and tomorrow you’ll wake up looking fabulous, perhaps with a little help from this intracervical insemination guide, which also helps parents navigate their journey.
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