- Do rediscover your sense of humor, especially about yourself, but maybe save the public laughs for later.
- Don’t fall in love with mint chocolate chip ice cream; it may be comforting, but those bar workouts can be brutal (even if you should give them a try).
- Do explore dating when you feel ready. There are some real gems out there, even in those murky online dating waters, but you need to be prepared to see them.
- Don’t rush into getting a tattoo. They’re permanent, but your reasons might not be.
- Do take time to think about nothing. Enjoy the freedom from your racing thoughts; that little inner critic can get annoying.
- Don’t accept random shots of apple schnapps and tequila from strangers. No further explanation needed here.
- Do embrace new experiences. You can try anything you like; who’s stopping you now?
- Don’t go surfing alone—safety first! You’re single, not a professional like Layne Beachley.
- Do belt out your favorite songs in the car, especially when Bruce is on. And don’t forget Nelly; his “Country Grammar” deserves a spot too.
- Don’t end up in bed with guys who don’t treat you with respect. You’ve been there, done that with your ex, right?
- Do pick up a new skill or revisit an old hobby. Keeping busy is key; you’re more interesting than you think!
- Don’t suppress your feelings, but don’t let them control you either. They’re often just fleeting.
- Do take time to appreciate beauty—in art, nature, music, and stories. It’s inspiring to see the creativity of others.
- Don’t overlook the small gestures, like making a homemade dinner for your child or starting a new holiday tradition. They’ll thank you later.
- Do reconnect with friends. They’ll remind you of who you are and where you came from—divorce doesn’t change that.
- Don’t buy clothes that are too young or tight. Trust me, you don’t want to be that woman. Embrace lycra instead!
- Do sneak a peek at your sleeping child. It’s the sweetest sight to take to bed with you each night.
- Don’t try your hand at crafting unless you’re ready for a hot glue gun and the potential scars. You can have a fulfilling life without ever stepping foot in a craft store.
- Do treat others how you’d like to be treated, including yourself. This is the Golden Rule after all!
- And most importantly, don’t throw in the towel. You only have one life; make it count!
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Summary
Navigating life after a divorce can be challenging, but embracing humor, learning new skills, and reconnecting with friends can help you thrive. Remember to take care of yourself, make time for your passions, and always treat others the way you want to be treated. Most importantly, don’t give up on yourself—your journey is just beginning!