This past year has seen quite the physical transformation for my spouse, and let me tell you, it hasn’t gone unnoticed—by anyone! Their dedication to training has truly paid off, and I couldn’t be prouder. But here’s the twist: they now have that classic “runner” look. Me? Not so much. This has sparked a few amusing (and sometimes awkward) conversations with family, friends, and even random strangers. They usually go like this:
RS (to partner): Wow! You look incredible! You must be running!
Partner: Yeah, I’ve been running a bit…
RS: That’s awesome!
Me (standing nearby, feeling invisible): Go ahead, ask them who got you back into running. Yep, that was me, darn it.
Or there’s this exchange:
RS (to partner): Have you been racing?
Partner: We’ve done a couple of half marathons…
RS: Wasn’t it pouring during the last one?
Partner: Yep, it rains every time we run a half—definitely a drought buster! Jessica ran it with me.
RS (shocked, turning to me): Oh, you ran it too?
Me: Absolutely! (Silently: Every single step of those 13.1 miles, in that torrential downpour!)
When my participation in the New York City Marathon comes up, I often see a mix of surprise and disbelief that it’s me, not my partner, who’s training for such a big event.
I know it might sound like I’m being a bit bitter, but honestly, I’m not. I understand; I’m not the typical “runner” type. No one would look at me and immediately think “marathon.” Unless, of course, they’re talking about binge-watching House of Cards.
Ironically, I find strength in the doubts others have about me. It might say something interesting about my character or career, but I see being underestimated as an opportunity. It pushes me to work harder, dig deeper, and ultimately surprise those who doubted me.
At the end of the day, it’s not about what others think; it’s about my belief in myself. Of course, I have lingering doubts about whether I can achieve my goals, but with every challenge I face and overcome, I grow stronger. It’s this self-affirmation that prepares me for whatever lies ahead.
In the end, even if you have family, friends, or even thousands of race spectators cheering you on, it means little if you don’t believe in yourself. And if you need a little reminder, those motivational T-shirts are always a great option! And if you’re interested in exploring more about fertility and home insemination, check out this informative post. For those looking into fertility supplements, Make a Mom offers great advice. And for a deep dive into the IVF process, this resource is invaluable.
Summary
Jessica shares her experience of being a runner in a world where she doesn’t fit the mold. Despite the surprise from others, she finds motivation in their doubts, using it to fuel her journey. Ultimately, believing in oneself is the most critical factor in achieving personal goals, whether in running or life.