As you near the big 4-0, you’ll undoubtedly come across two distinct types of people eager to share their thoughts on this milestone. You know, the classic lines like, “Life begins at 40” or “40 is the new 20.” But let’s break it down, shall we?
The First Type: The Older Generations
These folks have already passed the milestone and are living to tell the tale. They often reminisce about their own 40s, sometimes with a hint of nostalgia for a time they now consider youthful. They’re the ones who will advise you to “cherish every moment with your kids” as you battle a toddler’s meltdown in the middle of Target’s accessories aisle. They might also chime in with, “No one wishes they worked more when they’re dying,” while you juggle PTA meetings and playdates like a circus performer. And let’s not forget their penchant for sharing medical horror stories. “Oh, you have high cholesterol? Let me tell you about mine!” they’ll say, as if competing in a bizarre medical Olympics.
The Second Type: The Younger Crowd
Then there are those much younger than you, who either think you’re ancient or just feel sorry for you. You know the ones – they call you “ma’am” at the coffee shop or suggest you try a “more age-appropriate” hairstyle, which translates to “let’s cover those forehead wrinkles.” They might be the ones who have already found their calling in life or achieved some form of success, while you still ponder whether to take a class on floral arranging or poetry. They’ll toss around phrases like, “Age is just a number,” while handing you a copy of their book before jetting off to some tropical destination. Meanwhile, you’re left climbing into your minivan, reminding yourself to buy coconut milk.
Your Response Options
So, what do you do when these well-meaning folks share their unsolicited wisdom? You could opt for the “prunes and sensible shoes” route, diving headfirst into the world of comfortable fashion and age-appropriate hairstyles. Alternatively, you could shelf your dreams for writing or painting and embrace the adulting life, no matter how dull it may seem.
But here’s a thought: today is the youngest you’ll ever be. Whether you have another 50 years or just 10, worrying about age is a waste of time. Your reflection is at its least wrinkled, your hair is at its least gray, and you’re at your most fabulous right now. So whether you respond with a polite “thank you” or a cheeky “thanks, but no thanks,” remember, 40 is what you choose to make of it.
Make it count!
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In summary, as you approach 40, expect to meet two types of people: the nostalgic older generation and the optimistic younger crowd. Your response can vary from embracing age-appropriate choices to celebrating the present moment. Ultimately, it’s about making your 40s the best decade yet!