Recently, a friend of mine, Sarah, shared the details of a delightful date night she had with her husband. They enjoyed cocktails at a rooftop eatery while soaking in a stunning sunset. Following that, they rented bikes and pedaled alongside the river to another restaurant for dinner. Upon returning home, she exclaimed, “It was such a blast! We haven’t done anything new and exciting like that in years.”
Her experience got me reflecting: how often do I truly have fun with my husband? Lately, it feels like we’re the CEOs of a family business, each juggling responsibilities to keep everything running smoothly. Sure, the kids are thriving, the bills are paid, and life is generally good. But the joy we once shared, back when we were just a couple, seems to have taken a backseat. With every moment we spend together feeling like a luxury we can’t afford—especially with the guilt of leaving the kids behind—we’re forgetting the importance of play.
And let’s not forget the expenses! But more importantly, there’s always something more pressing demanding our attention: flu shots, school supplies, taxes—the list goes on. It’s tough to press pause on that mental checklist and just let loose the way we used to.
But I’ve been reconsidering this lately, realizing how essential it is for our relationship (and consequently, for our kids) to inject some fun back into our lives. When you choose a partner, you look for shared values, intellect, and humor—these are the foundation of a relationship. However, the glue that holds it all together is fun; without it, a marriage can start to feel more like a business partnership.
Like Sarah’s bike-riding adventure, it’s been ages since my husband and I have enjoyed something playful together. We rarely laugh uncontrollably or venture into new experiences anymore. Parenting often requires us to play it safe and plan ahead, always focused on the next meal or the ever-growing pile of laundry. But if we don’t occasionally hit the pause button and remember what made us enjoy each other’s company in the first place, we risk becoming mere coworkers in our own home. And let’s face it, nobody wants that!
So, here’s a new item for the to-do list: find fun activities to do with my husband. Just kidding! I already have a few ideas up my sleeve: cocktails on a rooftop, bike rides, dinner under the stars, maybe even a poker game in Las Vegas. If you’re looking for more inspiration on the journey to parenthood, check out some great insights at this link. And if you’re curious about home insemination, this resource is fantastic. For those venturing into pregnancy, you can find excellent information at this NHS page.
Summary:
Engaging in fun activities with your partner is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship amidst the responsibilities of parenting. By prioritizing joy and playfulness, couples can reconnect and strengthen their bond, ensuring a happier home life for everyone.