Hey there! It took me a bit to dive into this conversation because, honestly, I wasn’t sure how I fit in. We all know we share a lot more similarities than differences. Ultimately, we all want the best for our kids, our families, and ourselves. But in the vast online realm, it often feels like there’s no space for moms like me—those of us who juggle work and parenting right from home.
So, in the spirit of camaraderie and mutual support on this chaotic journey called motherhood, here are five things you might not know about yours truly, the hybrid mom who works from home:
- The Pressure is Real: Sometimes, I feel like I’m expected to be a superhero. My partner, Jake, is incredibly supportive, but when my office is just a few steps away in the dining room, I can’t shake the feeling that I should be doing it all—cranking out work, cleaning the kitchen, and tackling laundry. I remember the first deadline I met after my little one was born; I ended up a blubbering mess, convinced I was shortchanging her by working. But once I finished, I worried I hadn’t given enough time to being a mom. It’s a constant battle against the “shoulds” that seem to suffocate me.
- Scheduling is a Nightmare: I’ve learned to be pretty efficient during nap times (thank goodness for baby carriers!), but I still feel guilty handing the baby over to Jake to finish a project when he gets home. And when I’m playing with my daughter, that little nagging voice always asks if I’ve done enough work for the day. It’s not so much work-life balance anymore; it’s more of a high-wire act. Just when I feel like I’ve nailed down a routine, she changes everything up on me, but I still crave a semblance of order!
- Finding My Tribe is Tough: My friends who work outside the home have their own networks, and my stay-at-home mom friends have theirs. But as a work-from-home mom, I often feel a bit like a lone ranger. Connecting with others who get this unique blend can be a challenge, leading to moments of isolation.
- I Admire You Both: I miss the structure of working outside the home sometimes, and I wonder what it would be like to focus entirely on my little one (and, let’s face it, the housework too). But I know I couldn’t tackle what you both do, no matter how much I might wish I could. Working from home while parenting is tough, but it’s what fits best for me, and I genuinely admire the work you both put in!
- Let’s Celebrate Our Choices: Honestly, isn’t it incredible that we’re even having this discussion? Can you imagine our mothers sharing their experiences like this? It’s wonderful that there are so many ways to create our lives, and I believe our diverse choices will empower our children to reach heights we can only imagine. With so many amazing role models around, I hope they’ll have even more options when it’s their turn to build families someday.
At the end of the day, I feel fortunate to create a career that allows me to include my child in my life (and vice versa). It’s not always easy, but I cherish the fact we can parent in a time where choices abound. While being a stay-at-home mom or a working mom may not be my path, I want both of you to know I respect and value your journeys. There’s no single right way to be a modern mom, and I think we’re all doing a pretty fabulous job. After all, as long as the kids are fed and we’re mostly sane by the end of the day, that’s definitely worth celebrating!
Sending love and respect,
A Work-From-Home Mama
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Summary
This article shares the unique perspective of a work-from-home mom, discussing the challenges of balancing work and parenting, the struggle to find community, and admiration for stay-at-home and working moms. It highlights the importance of celebrating diverse parenting choices and the shared goal of providing the best for children.