For many of us, whether we clock in at an office or manage the chaos of home life, there are moments when we find ourselves questioning who we are and what we’re meant to do. We often reflect on our aspirations, considering what legacy we hope to leave behind. How can we express our creativity and tackle the world’s biggest challenges? What childhood dreams are lurking in the shadows, waiting for their moment to shine?
Too frequently, we push these thoughts aside, focused on just getting through the day. We convince ourselves that the complexities of the world are beyond our capabilities, or that we’ll revisit these dreams when the kids are older, our finances are steadier, or when we finally have that elusive “free time.” We often prioritize fulfilling our children’s needs above our own heart’s desires. After all, who is thinking about learning the guitar when unpacking from a Thanksgiving trip is still on the to-do list in January?
In the meantime, we might find ourselves seeking distractions—whether it’s a manicure, longer hours at work, shopping sprees, gym time, or even considering a job change. Sometimes, all we need is a little break, a few moments of quiet, or a change in our routine. However, our hearts sometimes yearn for something deeper—a chance to explore our true purpose and how to express that in the world. Unfortunately, in our rush to check off daily tasks, we often ignore that inner voice, let alone act on it.
Your heart might be calling for you to volunteer, return to a cherished hobby, deepen your relationship with your partner, train for a marathon, attend a yoga retreat, or simply paint more often. What truly matters is that you recognize these desires, give them a voice, and allow them to serve others in the process. It’s essential to carve out even a few minutes each day to nurture your dreams. Yes, parenting keeps us busy—there’s always one more dish to wash, another swim lesson to attend, or laundry to fold. Yet, we can still find 30 minutes each week to let our dreams breathe and blossom! Start small, but take that vital first step.
This is especially crucial as a parent. While we encourage our children to seek lives of meaning, creativity, and self-expression, our words ring hollow if they don’t see us embodying those ideals. We must live the example we want them to follow, giving them the freedom, love, and space to carve their own paths in this beautiful journey called life.
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In summary, it’s essential for parents to not only encourage their children to pursue their passions but to also actively pursue their own. Taking small, intentional steps towards fulfilling our desires can make a significant difference in our lives and set a powerful example for the next generation.