I often feel like I’m still in my 30s—active, healthy, and convinced my appearance hasn’t changed much over the years. So, when I hear someone say “in their 40s,” I can’t help but picture someone much older than me. I mean, I’m turning 40 next year. No way that could be me! Quickly downloads TikTok to keep up with the youth.
But then, out of nowhere, a mundane moment transforms into a “midlife awakening.” You know, those times when you’re reminded that you’re not as young as you used to be and often at the most unexpected moments. Like when you’re at the grocery store, casually looking for lettuce, and suddenly hear “This Is How We Do It” in elevator music. There you are, singing and doing a little dance in front of those bewildered heads of lettuce, who clearly can’t escape the embarrassment of it all.
As I approach this milestone, I can’t help but share some amusing surprises that might just resonate with you too:
- Your Friends Are Now Younger Than You
I grew up with “Friends” as my go-to show. I still binge-watch it on Netflix, chuckling at the jokes even after countless viewings. I watched the finale while cradling my newborn, sobbing not just because it was over, but because of the sleep deprivation. Back then, the characters seemed so much older and wiser. Now, I find myself rolling my eyes at the Ross and Rachel saga, realizing that their love drama could have been resolved with one honest conversation. They’ve shifted from relatable adults to slightly annoying twenty-somethings still figuring things out. - Waiting in Line? No Thanks!
Do you remember when waiting in line felt like an adventure? I once stood in line for hours just to meet the casting crew of “Deal or No Deal.” But now, unless it’s the DMV, I refuse to wait. The last trend I recall was people lining up for Cronuts. Seriously? I’d rather grab a maple bar and enjoy it immediately rather than sweat in the sun for a pastry! - You’re Speaking a Different Language
In my early 30s, I felt like I was still in my twenties—until a young coworker looked at me in confusion when I said, “Bye, Felicia!” Turns out she had no clue about the movie “Friday.” I had to insist she watch it on her iPad between her morning coffee and pastry runs. - Your Favorite Tracks Are Now ‘Classics’
Stuck in traffic the other day, I flipped on the radio and was jolted to hear “Just a Girl.” I belted it out, only to realize the station was branding itself as playing “The Greatest Classic Hits from the ’80s and ’90s.” Classic?! I felt ancient. Trying to shake off that feeling, I switched to a Top 40 station, only to hear lyrics that made me grateful for my age. - Teens Are Wearing Your Old Wardrobe
Walking into a coffee shop recently felt like stepping into a time warp. A girl in line sported a baby doll shirt, ripped jeans, and Docs—like she raided my high school closet! I used to think it was cool to wear flared jeans that echoed past styles, but seeing it now made me want to suggest she complete her look with a choker. - Second-Class Consumer Status
As we progress through life, we slowly realize we’re no longer the target demographic. Teenagers are the ones companies aim for with their flashy ads, while we get served commercials for control-top pantyhose and yogurt that “regulates” us. It’s a harsh reality when you realize you’re no longer the cool crowd. If you doubt me, try squeezing into a pair of skinny jeans and see how much they care about our age group. - Waking Up Sore After Sleeping
Remember those days of crashing anywhere and waking up totally fine? Now, sleeping on a futon feels like a punishment. I once tried to nap on one and woke up feeling like I’d been run over by a truck. The days of waking up refreshed are long gone; now, I need a firm pillow to avoid a neck cramp—thanks a lot, husband!
As we navigate the ups and downs of approaching 40, it’s comforting to know we’re not alone in these quirky realizations. If you’re curious about home insemination, check out this excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination. And for those interested in DIY options, you might want to explore the at-home insemination kit at Make a Mom.
Summary: Aging can sneak up on you in the most unexpected ways, from noticing your friends are younger to realizing that your favorite songs are now classics. Whether it’s avoiding long lines or waking up sore after a night of sleep, these moments remind us that time marches on, but they also bring a sense of humor and community among those of us approaching our 40s.