Let’s face it: parenting is a wild ride, and every child brings their own unique challenges. As a mom of three, I can vouch for that! Now that my youngest is 3 and I’m inching closer to 40, I’m realizing just how different each stage of parenting can be. Life is gradually becoming a tad easier, but honestly? I’m also just plain worn out.
The mornings are quieter now, thanks to my kids sneaking downstairs for some screen time before I wake up. Trips to the grocery store are less chaotic since I’ve waved goodbye to the napping phase. Plus, it’s nice to relax a bit without worrying about playground injuries. I’ve even cleared out most of the baby items and I’m slowly letting go of my youngest’s outgrown clothes. Yet, there’s one thing hanging over my head: my 3.5-year-old is still in diapers.
Instead of motivating him, I’m finding myself trying to motivate me:
- “Okay, this week is the week!”
- “Seriously, let’s get this done!”
- “What are you waiting for? Just potty train him already!”
But like I mentioned—I’m tired! Potty training feels like one of the toughest parenting tasks, and I’m just not in a hurry to jump back in. So, I’ve crafted my own little potty training manifesto. Here are six reasons why I think we can afford to wait a bit longer:
1. The Memories Are Fresh
You’ve been through it before, and some experiences are hard to forget. The messiness of potty training is one of those things! From cleaning up accidents to the dreaded moments of diarrhea, I think I’ll just put off this adventure for a little while longer.
2. Life Is Busier Now
With two older kids in activities like swim lessons and soccer, my schedule is packed! Gone are the days when potty training was a singular focus, with nothing else demanding my attention. Now, I have to juggle multiple responsibilities, and I’d rather not add potty training to the mix just yet.
3. The Baby Enjoys Being the Baby
Let’s be real—I like having a baby in the house just a bit longer too. While I’m ready to ditch diapers, saying goodbye to my youngest’s babyhood is tough. Plus, I’ve mastered diaper changes to the point where I could probably win an award!
4. Excitement Is Hard to Come By
It’s tough to muster enthusiasm for potty training when you’re already feeling stretched thin. Sure, it would be great if my little one could use the toilet, but honestly, I’d much rather use that time for binge-watching my favorite shows instead!
5. Public Restrooms Are a Nightmare
One of my proudest parenting achievements is teaching my kids to flush with their feet. But navigating public restrooms with three kids is a circus act. The chaos of trying to keep them from touching everything while managing a 3-year-old’s unpredictable schedule is a recipe for stress.
6. You’re Still Wiping Bums Anyway
Potty training seems like a milestone, but in reality, it just shifts the wiping from one position to another. Kids’ tiny arms are often not long enough to reach those tricky spots. So, I might as well wait until my little one can manage better.
Although I’m looking forward to a diaper-free household, I’m equally happy to hit pause on potty training. It’s a genuine midlife dilemma! I think I’ll steer clear of the first-time mom who’s tackling potty training her 18-month-old and continue with my diaper duty for now.
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Summary
Parenting is unique for each child, and as a mom of three, I find myself hesitant to dive back into the challenges of potty training my youngest. With busy schedules, fond memories of babyhood, and the chaos of public restrooms, I’m choosing to take my time.