Hey there, New Guy I Just Met,
So, we hit it off, huh? You flashed me a smile, and I returned the favor. We exchanged some banter, and amidst my clever comebacks and your wild story about three guys and a cab driver, I casually mentioned I’m a mom of two. Kudos on sticking around! We even managed to agree on a first date.
Now, you might think dating a single mom isn’t a big deal. Maybe you’re curious or even looking for a more “settled down” type. Regardless of your reasons, I’d like to share a few pointers to keep in mind as we embark on this adventure together. Here we go!
- My Kids Come First. Always. If plans change suddenly, please don’t take it to heart. If I opt for a cozy night in with my munchkins instead of that fancy gala, it’s because I chose what felt right for us. I’m cautious about introducing new faces into their lives, so if I don’t introduce you right away, it’s about all of us, not just me.
- Schedules are Key. When I ask about your week, I’m not trying to invade your privacy. With a career, kids’ activities, and household chaos, my two nights off are usually booked. So, if you want to hang out, let’s figure it out sooner rather than later.
- Respect My Time. If we have a date, please show up. I’ve arranged for a babysitter and made sacrifices to have this time. If you’re not genuinely interested, let’s not waste each other’s time. And if you’re emotionally unavailable, just say so now.
- My Kids Again. Let’s talk about them! I’m excited to share stories about their antics. If you’re not into hearing about my life as a mom or my kids’ adventures, then we might not be on the same page.
- I’m More Than a Mom. I have a ton of interests outside of parenting. Let’s delve into what makes each of us tick. Talk to me about your passions and let’s connect on a deeper level. I’d love to shed the mom persona and just be me for a bit.
- Keep It Real. While I appreciate good manners, I’m not looking for a PG-13 date. Treat me as the grown woman I am, not just as someone’s mom. I’m fluent in sarcasm, but I’ve got a softer side, too.
- About My Ex-Husband. Let’s keep the conversation about him to a minimum. We’re both figuring this out, and I need your support without judgment.
- I’m Not Desperate or Helpless. This single-parent life is tough, but I don’t need pity or unsolicited advice. I’m looking for a partner, not a caretaker or a superhero.
- Be Patient with Me. It takes time for me to let down my guard. I’ve learned to be self-sufficient, but I’m open to new experiences. Help me embrace that.
- Let’s Take It Slow. Dating as a single mom is different. There are kids involved, and it can get complicated. Let’s agree to take our time and avoid rash decisions.
So, thanks for sticking with me through this list! Still interested in grabbing that coffee? Just give me a shout.
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Summary
This playful guide for guys interested in dating a single mom covers everything from kids coming first to the importance of communication and patience. It emphasizes the need for mutual respect, understanding, and the realities of navigating a relationship that involves children, all while keeping the tone light and engaging.