Dear Working Mom,
First off, I want to express my appreciation for your letter. Like you, I’m weary of the never-ending debates about who has the tougher gig or who loves their kids more (seriously, can we agree that we all love them?). It’s clear that to bridge this gap that the media has created, we need to better understand one another. Your insights gave me a glimpse into your world, and I’m eager to share a bit about mine as a stay-at-home mom (SAHM).
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No Judgments Here
Let’s clear the air: I’ve never assumed you look down on me for choosing to stay home. Sure, some working moms might feel that way, just as some SAHMs might think they’re superior. But honestly, we both know there are always a few judgmental folks around. This doesn’t mean I want to join the fray of the so-called Mommy Wars. I believe we can be partners in this journey of motherhood rather than adversaries. So, let’s ignore the naysayers and focus on what really matters.
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You’re Superhuman
I’m in awe of how you manage everything. Seriously, how do you do all of it? Some days, just keeping the house in order while caring for my little ones feels like a marathon. I often find myself overwhelmed and wishing I could take a breather—like, could someone please take these dishes off my hands? I can’t fathom juggling work, home, and family all at once. You deserve a medal.
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Making Connections Is Tough
You might think it’s easy for me to make friends with other moms, but it’s not. I’m more on the shy side, and starting small talk at the playground can be a challenge. There’s no go-to question like, “What do you do?” for me. Instead, my intro line is often just as mundane: “Hey, I’m doing the same stuff as you—changing diapers and doing laundry.” So, if you see me looking hesitant, it’s not because I’m judging you; I’m just nervous. Let’s break the ice together! A compliment about your adorable kids is a perfect opener for me.
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It’s a Rollercoaster
I appreciate being a SAHM, but let’s be real: it can be draining. Like you, I made the choice that felt right for my family, but that doesn’t mean every day is a walk in the park. You’re racing against deadlines while I’m trying to keep up with a toddler’s whims. Sometimes, I just crave a moment to myself—where no one needs me to be “Mom.” I know you miss your kids while you’re at work, and I sometimes miss the adult conversations I used to have.
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I Value Your Work
Here’s something you might not expect: I’m genuinely grateful for what you do. Your role makes my life as a SAHM more manageable and enjoyable. Whether you’re the doctor caring for my sick child, the photographer capturing precious moments, or the teacher guiding them through their struggles, your contributions are invaluable. Thank you for your sacrifices—you make my job easier!
So, Working Mom, let’s put aside labels and focus on what truly binds us: our love for our children. I know you pour your heart into your family, just as I do with mine. That’s what makes us allies in this beautiful, chaotic journey of motherhood.
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In summary, let’s support each other instead of competing. We are both doing our best, and that’s what matters most.