I’ve recently started feeling a sense of wisdom blossoming within me—not in a mystical, Gandalf-like way, but more like an urban woman who is finally hitting her stride. And then it hit me: my newfound wisdom isn’t just a byproduct of approaching my 40s. It’s actually thanks to my 3-year-old son, who sees middle age as a distant concept that he can’t even spell. Here are some valuable lessons I’ve learned from him:
- Daily Hair Washing? No Thanks!
For years, I lamented that my hair looked its best right before I jumped into the shower. Why didn’t I think to skip the daily wash and let it shine? My son, on the other hand, goes days without a wash and still looks fabulous. Talk about saving on shampoo! - A Splash of Water Won’t Ruin Books
A little bathwater on the pages? No biggie! That slight crinkle adds character, just like the well-loved toys that have been through the wringer. Sure, we still bicker over book covers—I’m all for them while my son prefers the naked look, leading to a daily style showdown with his picture books. - Coloring Outside the Lines
My son has shown me that pressing hard while coloring brings out vibrant hues. I remember in college, I was hesitant to use my new lipstick for fear of ruining it, while my friend had a blast using hers. Now I see: whether it’s a crayon, lipstick, or hiking up a mountain, bold moves yield the best results! - Confidence Is the Real Style
Women’s magazines have long touted that style comes from wearing the right clothes, but my son proves them wrong by mismatching outfits and styling his own hair whenever he feels like it. He walks with pride, never comparing himself to others. That’s true style right there. - Cuddles Are Pure Bliss
In my busier 20s, I became a bit too independent, even in bed. But after sharing my space with a little one, I’ve rediscovered the joy of cuddling. Whether it’s snuggling with my husband or enjoying those precious moments with my son, it makes me feel alive. Cuddling truly makes life feel longer. - Patience Through Letter Writing
As my son learns to form letters, I’ve been reminded of the art of writing. Taking the time to write a letter isn’t just about the words; it’s about patience and thoughtfulness. It’s a slow, rewarding process that contrasts sharply with our fast-paced lives. Plus, imagining a letter traveling across the country to brighten someone’s day? That’s pure joy.
So there you have it! These nuggets of wisdom from a 3-year-old have opened my eyes to the beauty of life—all while I try to carve out some time for cuddles. If you want more insights on parenting and the journey to motherhood, check out this great resource on home insemination. And for those exploring fertility options, Make a Mom offers excellent information too. For pregnancy-related information, visit Womens Health for great insights.
Summary
In reflection, my child has taught me invaluable lessons about simplicity, confidence, and connection. As I approach my 40s, I embrace these teachings and look forward to more moments of joy and growth.