Hey there, darling.
I figured it’s time I jot down some pearls of wisdom for you. Time flies—especially for me, since you’re still just a figment of my imagination! But you’re often on my mind, and I hope these thoughts will guide you on your journey through life whenever it begins.
- Always read A Tree Grows In Brooklyn. It’s a classic for a reason.
- Treat yourself to solo dates; it’s a great way to learn about what you love.
- Find a passion that’s uniquely yours.
- Take risks—be bold!
- Hold hands; it’s more personal than you realize.
- Share the good books and albums you discover; they deserve an audience.
- Go see a live concert of a band you’ve never heard of; you might be pleasantly surprised.
- Fall in love frequently—but protect your heart. Embrace being a complex person.
- Get a well-fitting bra; trust me on this one.
- Avoid driving past his house; it’s never a good idea.
- Identify something about yourself that you truly cherish.
- Remember, a road trip can solve many problems.
- When shopping, flip barcodes outward to make life easier for the cashier— your grandmother taught me this nifty trick.
- Beware of girls who lack female friends; they might not be the best company.
- Celebrate all your firsts, no matter how small.
- Acknowledge your unique milestones, even if they differ from your friends’.
- Find a trustworthy confidant.
- Learn the power of saying “No.”
- Absolutely no cats; they’re just not for everyone.
- Discover a lipstick that expresses what you sometimes can’t say.
- Figure out your ideal napping conditions— you’ll thank yourself later.
- Remember, only you can narrate your story, so make it a good one.
- You are always more beautiful than you think.
- You’ll inevitably run into certain people— it’s just a part of life.
- Write letters; they have a charm that texts can’t replicate.
- Patience is key; Grandma Mary taught me that, and I think I might name you after her.
- Find a travel companion who vibes with you.
- Embrace your scars; they tell your story.
- Sending another text is probably not the best move.
- Take the time to dry your hair properly; it makes a difference.
- Trust me, you’ll want a female gynecologist.
- Learn to enjoy your own company; it’s liberating.
- If you travel abroad, memorize these phrases: “Where’s the restroom?” “How much does this cost?” “That’s too expensive!” and “Please don’t touch me.”
- Understand that some friendships are meant to be temporary.
- Remember, love is a chaotic, messy affair— embrace it fully.
- Send your kids to summer camp; it’s character-building.
- Bend your knees when lifting; your back will thank you.
- Treat yourself to fresh tulips— put a penny in the vase for longevity.
- Have a go-to movie that helps you unwind at night.
- Take care of your body and your car; both deserve some polish.
- Know what’s under the hood— of both your car and your life.
- Always have an escape plan and a secret spot for a good cry.
- Cherish the laughter you hear on the other end of a phone call.
- Gather stories and friends; they are the fabric of your life.
- Seriously, don’t drive by his house.
- Bangs eventually grow out.
- Shoes generally fit; don’t stress too much.
- Moderation with gin— it’s a slippery slope.
- Learn every word to at least one epic song; I suggest “Thunder Road” by Bruce Springsteen. Naming you after him is still on the table.
- Always pack extra medication for your travels.
- Honor intentions; even if someone misses the mark, respect their effort.
- Master my Grammy’s kugel recipe; it tastes even better the next day.
- Strike up conversations with strangers; you never know who might become a friend.
- Practice saying “Thank you” to gracefully accept compliments.
- Watch Friday Night Lights— it’s a classic for a reason.
- Listen closely when others describe you; their perspective can reveal hidden truths.
- Have a tough-love friend who keeps you grounded.
- Find a no-questions-asked buddy who shows up when you need help—shovel included.
- Never apologize for your true self— only for how you express it.
- Discover what makes you unique— your superpower.
- When uncertain, remember: sometimes it’s best to hold back.
- Always remember, someone out there misses you.
- Know your best friend’s handwriting; it’s a special bond.
- If you must drive by his house, do it at night with the lights off, windows up, and radio silent. Preferably in a borrowed car.
- And for goodness’ sake, duck down!
Love, Mom