Are you tying the knot? Why bother with the fuss of a traditional bridal shower when you can simply send out cards requesting money? A post on Reddit recently highlighted an invitation for a “silent bridal shower,” which seems to be the latest craze. I always imagined bridal showers as delightful get-togethers filled with sandwiches (crusts removed, of course) and gifts of lingerie. Apparently, that’s not how it goes anymore!
The invitation read: “Join us for a Silent Shower! No party, no guests, no bride, and no boxes to unwrap. Just buy a greeting card, include a check made out to Bride and Groom’s Names for any amount you choose, and mail it in the provided addressed envelope. All envelopes will be collected, beautifully wrapped, and sent to the happy couple.”
Now, asking for checks might be a stretch for what we consider “celebrating.” It feels less like a celebration and more like a bill payment reminder. There’s an unspoken understanding that wedding guests usually bring gifts, but making that demand explicitly? That’s just plain awkward.
Sure, weddings are pricey these days—not just for the couple but for everyone involved. Many couples feel they deserve something in return for their big day, but sending out a letter that says, “Send your checks here” just feels… well, odd. It’s like saying, “I can’t be bothered to plan a proper shower or set up a registry, but I’d love your cash.”
For those planning to invite guests to their wedding, it’s clear that gifts are expected; there’s no need to lay it all out so explicitly. Let’s not pretend that these showers are solely about gathering and celebrating anymore.
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In summary, while the idea of a silent bridal shower might sound convenient, it raises eyebrows when it comes to etiquette. Traditional celebrations are about connection and joy, not just cash. Let’s cherish the moments that matter!