Stepping into motherhood is no small feat. You’ve likely drowned in a sea of parenting books and websites that often contradict one another, not to mention the well-intentioned but sometimes overwhelming advice from friends and family. It can feel like navigating through a maze of confusion. So, let me throw my two cents into the mix with some genuine lessons I’ve picked up during my early weeks as a new mom.
- Expect the unexpected: In the six weeks since my little one arrived, I’ve learned that plans often go out the window. From a week in the NICU for a minor infection to discovering I couldn’t breastfeed, and even dealing with a dead car battery, surprises are the name of the game. Oh, and did I mention my partner developed temporary eye palsy? Yeah, good luck planning anything!
- Babies are blissfully indifferent to any parenting “rules” you might have read about.
- Guidelines for things like putting your baby to sleep on their back are often designed for “ideal” infants. Spoiler alert: most babies have reflux and prefer snuggling close to you. Be prepared to adapt.
- Your home will transform into a battlefield of baby gear—some used, some collecting dust. You’ll discover that many things you thought were essential (like the bassinet) are fiercely rejected by your little one.
- Baby poop has a surprising velocity—think rocket launch. You’ll find it amusing, even when it lands on you.
- After feeding, babies often get adorably “milk drunk.” It’s one of the cutest sights you’ll experience.
- Having a pediatrician you can reach out to for your seemingly silly questions is vital. They’ll help ease your worries and remind you that you’re not alone.
- The overwhelming love you feel for your child is matched only by the weight of responsibility that comes with it. It can be daunting, but before you know it, you’ll check on them every five minutes instead of every two!
- Babies are undeniably cute, but they also make some pretty bizarre faces that would fit right in with Dick Tracy villains.
- Create a playlist of short, engaging shows for those late-night feedings. I recommend sitcoms like Community—they’re perfect for keeping you awake while comforting your little one with reflux.
- Seriously, don’t neglect yourself. It’s perfectly okay to set your baby down for a bit. Your well-being is crucial for being the best parent you can be.
- I have a feeling that after another six weeks, I’ll have a whole new set of insights because, let’s be honest, none of us really know what we’re doing.
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In summary, parenting is a wild ride filled with surprises, laughter, and a whole lot of love. Embrace the chaos, and remember that you’re not alone in this journey.