By: Jamie Carter
Updated: Aug. 3, 2023
Originally Published: May 23, 2015
While many are convinced that college is the only logical next step after high school, I believe we need to rethink that approach. College is a significant commitment—both financially and mentally—and perhaps it shouldn’t be the immediate path for every graduate. I propose that a large number of students could greatly benefit from taking a break before diving into higher education, allowing them to experience the “real world” first.
Now, please don’t mistake my suggestion as a call for everyone to take a year off to travel. Sure, globetrotting can be eye-opening, whether you’re jet-setting courtesy of your parents or navigating hostels with a backpack. Travel can inspire some to discover their passions; for instance, I know a chef named Mia who discovered her love for cooking while recovering from an illness in a French farmhouse. However, that’s not quite what I’m advocating for either.
I believe that most high school graduates would gain so much from spending at least a year working and living independently. Getting a job—especially one that’s not directly tied to a long-term career—can teach invaluable lessons about responsibility and the true cost of living. Once you start paying your own rent and managing bills, the importance of a college education can become very clear. Suddenly, every dollar spent on tuition feels like a serious investment, making students reconsider everything from class attendance to course selection.
I myself took a detour after my first semester of college. I wasn’t thrilled with my school, felt aimless without a declared major, and eventually dropped out. Returning my student ID and getting that refund check felt like a breath of fresh air. The next few years were a whirlwind—working at a coffee shop, waitressing, and even managing an office. I learned firsthand how to make ends meet, facing financial struggles, and even experiencing eviction. It was tough but incredibly eye-opening.
When I eventually returned to college, it was with purpose. I had a clear direction and was ready to make the most of my education. My prior experiences had already shown me the kind of lifestyle I wanted to avoid, and I was determined to succeed. I immersed myself in my studies, secured meaningful internships, and focused on gaining knowledge that would serve me well in my career.
Many kids rush from high school to college thinking it’s just another four years of classes with more freedom, but it can be so much more than that. It’s a time for growth and discovery, and taking a break can provide the perspective needed to fully appreciate the college experience.
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Summary:
The article emphasizes the importance of gaining real-world experience before immediately jumping into college after high school. It suggests that working a job can help students understand the value of education and make more informed choices regarding their future studies. The author shares personal experiences to illustrate how time spent in the workforce can foster growth and direction.