We didn’t always choose the home schooling path. My kids, aged 13 and 10, spent several years in public schools until we made the leap in January this year. After countless discussions, research, and more than a few emotional family meetings, my husband and I decided it was time for a change. This decision has been one of the most fulfilling yet chaotic experiences we’ve ever embarked on, and it has taught me some invaluable lessons.
1. Home and School Blend Seamlessly
You quickly realize there’s no clear separation between home life and education. I find myself asking, “Did you behave like this in school?” at least five times a day. While you might hope your kids will treat learning time like classroom time, they will always see you as Mom first. So, if they want to complain about tackling five math problems, they will! And don’t even get me started on the endless bathroom and snack breaks.
2. Trial and Error is Part of the Process
We kicked off our journey with an online program that promised a structured school-at-home experience. However, two weeks in, my kids were miserable. They were “in school” from 9 AM to 5 PM, and it felt like a prison sentence! We quickly ditched that plan and tried a different curriculum. Fast forward four months, and we’ve finally hit our stride with a mix of resources we all enjoy. It’s all about finding that sweet spot between curriculum, time, and happiness, even if it takes some trial and error.
3. Community is Key for Your Sanity
Joining a local home schooling group or co-op can be a lifesaver. Initially, I thought socialization wouldn’t be an issue since my kids were used to public school. But after a couple of weeks of non-stop family time, I realized I needed to get us out of the house! We found an awesome home schooling group that organizes field trips, park days, and potlucks. It’s great to connect with other parents who understand the unique challenges of home schooling. Plus, my kids have made friends and I’ve found my tribe of what I affectionately call the “Misfit Moms.” We let our kids express themselves freely, and it’s been a blast!
4. Letting Kids Explore Sparks Their Curiosity
After ditching the rigid online program, I created a list of subjects we needed to cover. Initially, I tried to dictate what we would study in history and science, only to be met with groans. Realizing that letting them choose was a game-changer! Suddenly, their faces lit up as they picked topics that interested them. My 13-year-old, who used to just watch crime shows with me, started diving into books about forensic science. Meanwhile, my 10-year-old launched his own YouTube channel dedicated to stop-motion videos featuring Legos. Since allowing them to take the reins, we’ve explored everything from the Revolutionary War to ecosystems, and I couldn’t be prouder.
5. Embrace the Quirkiness of Home-Schooled Kids
In my journey through the home schooling community, I’ve met some truly remarkable kids. From a 15-year-old taking college classes to a preteen advocating passionately for LGBT rights, these kids are anything but ordinary. They think outside the box, and I love that my children are among such “weird” but brilliant company. While these extraordinary kids certainly exist in public schools too, home schooling allows them the freedom to chase their passions in a way that traditional settings often don’t.
Since we began this home schooling journey, we’ve navigated both smooth and rough days, but one thing remains clear: it’s a learning experience for the entire family, not just the kids. Who knows what new insights I’ll have in a few months? Amazing, fulfilling, rewarding, crazy, chaotic, and sometimes challenging—such is life in the home school lane.
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Summary
Home schooling has been a transformative journey for our family, teaching us the importance of blending home and education, embracing trial and error, finding community, allowing kids to explore their interests, and celebrating the uniqueness of home-schooled children. It’s a learning experience for everyone involved, and I can’t wait to see what else we’ll discover.