Updated: Dec. 20, 2015
Originally Published: May 11, 2015
Enough is enough! If you’re tired of dealing with sexist comments at work, here are some clever tactics to help you shut down those inappropriate remarks with style and a little humor.
1. Adopt a Playful Attitude.
Treat the sexist comments like a child’s silly tantrum. Roll your eyes, chuckle lightly, and say something like, “Nice one, champ!” If that doesn’t do the trick, take it up a notch and share a laugh with coworkers. “Can you believe this guy?” Show everyone that you’re the adult in the room.
2. Get Ahead of the Game.
If you sense your enthusiasm about a topic might lead to accusations of being overly emotional, turn the tables! If the conversation gets intense, preemptively label him as the emotional one. Suggest he take a breather, saying, “Let’s refocus once you’ve calmed down a bit.”
3. Stand Against Pet Names.
When someone calls you “sweetheart” or “honey,” don’t just brush it off. Instead, respond with a smirk, “Do you call all the managers that?” Frame it like it’s the most absurd thing ever and let your amused tone show him how out of line he truly is.
4. Directly Address the Issue.
Sometimes, a straightforward approach works best. But keep it light! Say something like, “You might want to watch what you say; people might think you’re stuck in the past.” This will make him reconsider his words next time.
5. Feign Confusion.
When someone cracks a sexist joke, act genuinely puzzled. “What do you mean by that? I’m not following.” If he brings up stereotypes, maintain your blank stare and respond with, “Women like what? Shoes? That’s a new one for me.”
6. Make Him Feel Like a Dinosaur.
If the offender is older, play up a generational misunderstanding. Respond with a shrug and something like, “Oh, I guess that’s just how things used to be.” This can subtly highlight his outdated views without escalating the situation.
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Summary:
Addressing sexism in the workplace can be challenging, but with a playful attitude, preemptive strategies, and direct communication, you can effectively shut down inappropriate comments. Remember, it’s all about fostering respect and understanding among colleagues.