As Mother’s Day approaches, dads and kids across the nation will flock to stores, searching high and low for the ultimate gift to make mom feel special. They’ll gather pancake mix, fresh strawberries, and gourmet coffee for a homemade breakfast in bed. Some might wash her car, treat her to dinner, or surprise her with tickets to that concert she’s been dreaming about. Sweet cards will be exchanged, little ones will proudly present their hand-drawn poems, and even teenagers might muster a genuine hug and a “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.”
But here’s the truth: none of these gifts, gestures, or cards are really what moms want on this day. Trust me, it’s not what I long for either.
What I truly desire on Mother’s Day is not an afternoon of solitude with a box of chocolates and my favorite TV show. Nor do I crave a day of being pampered like a celebrity recovering from a whirlwind tour. Nope. The one thing I want is simple: I want to hear that I’m doing this motherhood thing right. I need that reassurance.
Remember the early weeks of motherhood? The sleepless nights filled with endless crying, paired with a little bundle of joy who didn’t offer much feedback? The first time your baby looked up at you and smiled was like a little victory flag waving in your heart. That grin said it all.
Over the years, I’ve allowed myself to forget those moments of affirmation. So, I’m asking you—please tell me I’m doing it right, not just on Mother’s Day, but on those challenging days too.
When I’m running on empty, overwhelmed by the demands of raising kids in today’s world, I need to hear, “You’re doing it right.” When I’m battling self-doubt while answering my teens’ questions about life, love, and everything in between, I need that reminder. When I’m exhausted after flipping what feels like my ten thousandth pancake and serving yet another meal, I crave those words of encouragement.
As I collapse into bed, filled with regret for not being a better version of myself, or when the mountain of dirty dishes feels insurmountable, I just need someone to say, “You’re doing it right.” And when I feel like I have nothing left to give, a simple affirmation would mean the world.
I’m sure I speak for many moms when I say that just one day of being told we’re doing well isn’t enough. It shouldn’t take a special occasion, prompted by commercials and calendars. So this Sunday, if you’re fortunate enough to still have your mom in your life, give her a call and say, “You did it right.” Reach out to that single mom who often feels overwhelmed and remind her, “You’re doing it right.”
And when you see that young mom struggling at the grocery store, take a moment to encourage her with a pat on the shoulder and say, “You’re doing it right.”
To the mom of a child with special needs, who tirelessly serves as their angel and protector, remind her, “You’re doing it right.” And don’t forget to reassure that expectant mother, “You’re gonna do it right.”
Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms who are questioning their journey. Here’s my gift to you: “YOU’RE DOING IT RIGHT.”
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