Have you ever heard the saying, “happy wife, happy life”? It’s absolutely spot on. But let’s not forget this little gem: a happy MOM is the real deal! That’s why I find Mother’s Day a bit amusing—not in a “ha ha” way, but more like, “Why am I still dealing with boogers and diaper changes on MY special day?” Honestly, it hasn’t been all that funny for me.
Now, I know some of you might be itching to leave a snarky comment about being grateful and how some people can’t have kids—trust me, I get it. But I already recognize that every day of the year! So why should we have to carry the weight of it all on the ONE day meant for us? Enter the concept of the pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day.
A girlfriend of mine shared this brilliant idea with me about five years ago, and it changed everything. She and her friends spend the day before Mother’s Day at a fabulous resort near Los Angeles, sipping champagne in the sun and chatting—without kids! Some even indulge in massages. At the end of the day, some take a cab home, while others stay overnight.
Hey there, I see you rolling your eyes. I know you’re just waiting to leave your grumpy remark. But hear me out! Mother’s Day is wonderful—breakfast in bed, macaroni art portraits, and all the hugs and kisses make it worthwhile. But you know what else is fantastic? The pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day.
Dads, pay close attention. This is a game-changer for you. Yes, I’m typing in ALL CAPS because the perks of this idea are HUGE! I won’t spell it out for you, but let’s just say: Bow chicka bow wow. Go all out! Last year, for example, my buddy Kyle treated us to a suite at a local resort, where we lounged by the pool all day and enjoyed some delightful girl talk. The next day, the dads arrived with the kids, and everyone was in high spirits.
Picture us painting each other’s toenails, having pillow fights, and giving back massages while flipping through 50 Shades of Grey. We don’t mind what you imagine, just make it happen! Do you have any idea how much this husband scored points for pulling this off? The other dads looked like amateurs, but that’s okay. Now we know they’ll all want to take turns doing something similar each year, thanks to their competitive nature.
And guess what’s next, gentlemen? Father’s Day! You know those golf clubs you’ve been eyeing? You might just get them. And perhaps even a day out on the course! Isn’t that a sweet deal? Trust me, you help us unwind, and we’ll return the favor.
Full disclosure: there’s a slight chance you might not feel 100% on the actual day after all the fun. But you know what two words can fix that? Gatorade and Ibuprofen. You’re welcome! Now, go out and spread the joy of pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day!
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In summary, celebrating a Pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day can be the ultimate way to enjoy some well-deserved relaxation before the big day. It’s not just about the kids; it’s about treating yourself, and trust me, everyone will benefit from a happy mom.