As a full-time freelancer, my pre-parenting days were often spent solo at a café, writing away without the distractions of tiny hands and feet. While I had friends, they didn’t quite grasp the world of writing, which led me to seek out fellow writers for camaraderie and guidance. I think many professionals, whether in the military or healthcare, can relate to having peers who truly understand their daily grind.
Now that I’m knee-deep in the chaotic yet beautiful world of motherhood with two little ones (ages three and five), I’ve realized that just like in writing, having a variety of mom friends is a game changer. These wonderful women didn’t exactly show up on my doorstep, but they’ve been invaluable in navigating this wild journey. Here are five types of mom friends that every mother can benefit from:
1. The Seasoned Pro Mom
This is the mom who’s already raised her kids or has children several years older than yours. She’s been through the trenches and offers sage advice on everything from potty training to sibling squabbles. When I was pregnant with my second child, my friend Lisa, who has successfully raised four teens, was a treasure trove of wisdom. She helped calm my nerves, reassuring me that if she could manage four, I could certainly handle two.
2. The Chill Mom
Meet Amy, a mom of five under nine who seems to thrive amidst chaos. I’m constantly amazed by her ability to maintain a serene smile even when it seems like her house is a scene from a wild circus. You might find yourself a tad envious—how does she manage to keep it together while her kids are racing around like little tornadoes? It’s likely just her innate vibe. Having her around will definitely help you feel a bit more relaxed too.
3. The Crafty Mom
Also known as the Pinterest queen, this mom can whip up homemade baby food, sew curtains, and plan themed birthday parties with ease. My friend Megan’s creative flair inspires me to get crafty, even if my projects range from “meh” to “what was I thinking?” Plus, her event-planning skills are a lifesaver when you want to throw a party that won’t cost you your sanity. If you’re looking for ideas, check out this resource for some great tips!
4. The Superwoman Mom
She’s the one juggling a full-time job, leading the class, volunteering at the library, and still managing to find time for yoga. My friend Tara is a single mom who somehow does it all, and her ambition is truly inspiring. Hanging out with the Superwoman Mom will motivate you to push your own limits and discover new passions—just be ready to take notes on her time management skills!
5. The Newbie Mom
Whether she’s just had a baby or is still expecting, she’s right where you once were. You’ll find yourself nodding along as she shares her struggles and triumphs. You might even become her mentor, which is mutually beneficial. Supporting her through those early stages will remind you of your own journey and how far you’ve come. On days when you feel like you’re stumbling, reaching out to your Newbie Mom friend can help ground you again.
Regardless of where you are on your motherhood journey, the right mix of mom friends can help smooth out the bumps along the way. Embrace the differences in your parenting styles and remember that your unique talents might just be the support another mom needs. After all, we’re all in this together—might as well enjoy the ride!
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