Sweetheart, I noticed you came home from school all teary-eyed again. Kids can be unbelievably harsh, often without even realizing it. You might feel like you’re on the outside looking in, feeling mocked and alone. I know you’ve spent too many moments in that small, dark bathroom stall shedding tears.
While I can’t wave a magic wand to make everything better, I can be right here with you—ready to listen and hold you close. So, let’s talk. Share what’s on your heart. Cry on my shoulder instead of that cold bathroom floor. Once you’ve expressed it all, give me just a few more moments of your time. There are some important things I want you to hear:
- Crying is Totally Fine. Emotions are like a pressure cooker; sometimes, you just need to let the steam out. Crying can be a healing release. Allow yourself to feel and process your hurt, then you’ll find that laughter is just around the corner.
- Your Happiness is Yours Alone. The key to your happiness lies within you. It’s not something I can give or that you can buy; it’s a treasure that nobody can take away. It’s limitless and timeless. You have the power to choose happiness each and every day. So go ahead, flex that muscle and live joyfully!
- You Can Conquer Challenges. Dream big, my little star! Wake up and work hard—there’s no limit to what you can achieve. You possess a unique blend of talents and abilities. Embrace them, enhance them, and carve your own path. Let your journey be filled with blooming flowers.
- You Are Beautiful. And I mean that in every single way. You’re gorgeous when you first wake up, even if your hair looks like a bird’s nest. You’re stunning when you’ve just cried, after muddy adventures, or even when you’re feeling under the weather. Your beauty shines through every smile and tear—always and forever.
- You Matter More Than You Know. Believe me when I say you’ve always mattered. You mean the world to your family, your teachers, and even the kid you helped out. You matter to people you don’t even realize, and to those yet to meet you. You are important now, have always been, and always will be.
- My Love for You is Unconditional. I loved you before you even took your first breath. I loved you when you first learned to say “Mama,” even when you’ve thrown tantrums or slammed doors. I love you when school gets tough or when you struggle to love yourself. My love is your superpower, constant and unwavering.
Remember, the kids who tease you don’t know the amazing person you are. They see just a tiny fraction of your life and don’t know your true worth. You have to trust me on this—I see you for who you really are, and I believe in your potential. Don’t let their words hold you back.
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In summary, my dear daughter, always remember that you are strong, beautiful, and loved unconditionally. You have everything you need within you to rise above the challenges and shine bright.