As a parent of three children aged 6 months, 5 years, and 7 years, I often find myself on the receiving end of unsolicited parenting advice—both in person and online. While I can understand the urge to share insights from one’s own experiences or observations, sometimes it would be best if these comments were kept to themselves. Here are six pieces of advice I’ve encountered and how I would respond if I weren’t trying to be the nice guy.
1. “Shouldn’t he be wearing a jacket?”
Sure, he probably should be. But let’s be real: my seven-year-old listens about as well as a goldfish. I’ve wrestled him into the bathtub once a day; I’m not equipped for the jacket battle. He’ll learn about the cold the hard way—goosebumps and all. Can you respect that? Because I certainly can.
2. “Breastfeeding is better for babies.”
Thanks for the medical insight, Captain Obvious. Here’s the reality: my partner intended to breastfeed, but her workplace offered a mere month of maternity leave and no adequate space for pumping. So, when she had to return to work, she switched to formula. Can we still be friends despite our different choices?
3. “If you loved your kids, you wouldn’t let them eat at McDonald’s.”
If you had kids, you would understand that sometimes survival means a quick trip to the drive-thru. McDonald’s might not be my favorite, but it’s a necessary evil sometimes—like your caffeine fix at Starbucks. It’s not healthy, but it sure makes my life easier on busy days.
4. “Keeping a clean house isn’t that hard with kids.”
Oh really? What does “maintaining” mean to you? I’m guessing it involves locking the kids outside with a bowl of food until they’re 18? My kids are little tornadoes of chaos. Just last week, I found two pairs of underwear in the freezer! So, what does your “clean house” advice entail?
5. “Your baby would sleep through the night if you let her cry it out.”
You might be right, but I can’t do that to her. I’d rather endure sleepless nights than harden my heart. So, when I tell you I’m tired from being up all night, just let me vent without offering your advice, okay?
6. “Preventing public meltdowns starts at home.”
I’m guessing your parenting style involved some outdated methods. I work hard to teach my kids appropriate public behavior, but sometimes they morph into little monsters in public. Most of the time, they’re fantastic, but those tantrums are a part of the journey. Yes, they learn through experience, including the times they don’t behave perfectly.
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Summary:
Navigating unsolicited parenting advice can be challenging. While people often mean well, their comments can be frustrating. From jacket battles to sleep training, every family’s journey is unique. It’s essential to focus on what works for your family rather than external opinions.
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