When it comes to birthday gifts, we all know they’re meant to be thoughtful gestures, right? They’re never required, especially for little ones. Typically, it’s a given that guests bring gifts to a child’s party unless stated otherwise. But one mom, named Lisa, seems to have missed the memo on the unspoken rules of birthday celebrations.
Recently, she sent a rather elaborate email to friends and family ahead of her son’s upcoming first birthday. Yes, you heard that right—a pre-invite memo! Because, of course, it’s essential to prepare for a one-year-old’s big day. This email has gone viral on social media, and for good reason.
“Just a heads up, a formal invitation will be hitting your mailboxes shortly,” she wrote. A save-the-date for a toddler’s party? Talk about setting the bar high!
Lisa went on to say, “If you’re considering gifts not mentioned in the list, please ask! We’ll let you know if we already have it or if it’s tucked away.” Seriously? If the concern is about too many gifts, a simple “no gifts, please” on the invitation would suffice. This little one won’t even remember his birthday, and yet, here we are with this over-the-top planning.
While it’s true that we live in a world overflowing with toys and expectations, gift registries for kids’ parties are becoming more commonplace. After all, who wants a duplicate present or something that the child won’t enjoy? While some might think this ensures that kids receive what they truly want, doesn’t it also teach entitlement? I remember receiving a quirky knit shampoo bottle cover every year from my aunt, and I learned to appreciate every gift. There are lessons everywhere, especially for children.
If Lisa continues on this path, she might want to prepare for a rather short RSVP list.
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In summary, while this mother’s approach to her child’s birthday may seem excessive, it does reflect a growing trend of heightened expectations surrounding gifts for kids. A little appreciation goes a long way, and sometimes the simplest gestures carry the most meaning.