Parenting can sometimes feel like an uphill battle, and today was one of those days where I just felt like I didn’t quite hit the mark.
Let’s be honest, I was a bit of a selfish mom. I poured myself a steaming cup of coffee before even thinking about changing the baby’s diaper. Who knew caffeine could be so enticing?
I felt like a weak mom when I raised my voice at our little one, who was adamantly refusing to eat the nutritious meal I placed in front of her. And yes, I might have been a bit of a strict mom too; I definitely said “no” more times than I said “yes.”
Then there were those moments I would rather forget, like when I found myself speaking through clenched teeth. I’m pretty sure the phrase “please, just eat your veggies!” was not my finest hour.
It seems that the well-meaning advice of “enjoy every moment” is often given by those who’ve conveniently erased the tough parts of parenting from their memories. Let’s be real; it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. The closest I came to a rainbow today was when the baby decided to express his creativity with a crayon explosion—definitely a “mom of the year” moment!
No matter how hard I strive to be the mom of my dreams, I often feel like I fall short. But I know that dwelling on the “what ifs” will only drive me a little mad. So, I remind myself to acknowledge the good stuff too. After all, I was also a pretty fun mom today! I built a cozy fort out of pillows and blankets, which was a big hit.
I was patient, waiting for what felt like a lifetime for my toddler to finally decide she needed help getting buckled into her car seat. And I was thoughtful—I put down my phone and snuggled up with my kids for some much-needed couch time.
Let’s not forget compassion. I kissed the inevitable boo-boos and wrapped my arms around my little ones when they needed comfort. It’s important to remember that as parents, we want the absolute best for our kids. We strive for excellence, which can sometimes set us up for an impossible standard.
It’s all too easy to focus on our shortcomings, and let’s face it, “mommy guilt” is a very real thing. But what about “mommy pride”? Surely, we should take a moment to celebrate the incredible feats we accomplish daily, like giving life and nurturing our little ones. We’ve braved sleepless nights, cleaned up messes that would make anyone cringe, and most importantly, we’ve loved fiercely.
When we take a moment to reflect, we often find that the positives far outweigh the negatives. Parenting is a beautiful dance, filled with ups and downs, missteps, and triumphs. It’s about keeping our balance, even when things feel a little shaky. Tomorrow is a new day, and with a little luck, we’ll find our rhythm just a bit better.
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