It may seem like a relic from the past, but a 2010 study from Cornell revealed some eyebrow-raising statistics about couples aged 18 to 28 who have been together for over a year. These young adults likely don’t think about who’s “wearing the pants” in the relationship, and they probably can’t recall that vintage Enjoli perfume ad where the woman brings home the bacon while trying to keep her partner feeling like a man. Spoiler alert: it’s a recipe for disaster! Another study from 2013 found that when a woman earns more, her male partner is 10% more likely to seek help for issues like erectile dysfunction, anxiety, and insomnia.
What’s Going On?
So, what’s going on? Are these men just particularly insecure, or does this reflect a deeper issue that feminism hasn’t fully addressed? Why aren’t men celebrating their partner’s success instead of feeling threatened by it? It’s perplexing, and thankfully, I haven’t faced this in my own life, where I’ve been the primary earner for quite some time.
Strategies for Modern Relationships
In her book, author Mia Reynolds offers strategies to tackle this challenge, suggesting we might need to “rewrite the fairy tale” for modern relationships. Another approach? Keep the woman’s salary at about 75% of the man’s to avoid marital strife and reduce the chances of infidelity. But let’s be honest—that doesn’t feel like a real solution. Instead, I say find a guy who thinks your achievements are hot and genuinely supports you!
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Conclusion
In summary, while financial dynamics in relationships can be tricky, it’s essential to find a partner who values your success. Embracing each other’s achievements can lead to a healthier, happier relationship.