Ever get the feeling that as parents, we sometimes focus too much on our blunders and forget that what our kids truly need is to feel loved? A sweet note from a dad to his daughter, written two decades ago, has taken the internet by storm this week!
“Hey Emma,” the note starts, “Can you guess how to spell the sandwich I packed for you today?
– Below Knee
– Blowney
– Bologna
– Baloonee
Now, guess how much I love you.
THIS MUCH!
Have an awesome day. Love, Dad.”
Emma Thompson, now 31, has kept this note from her father, Mike Thompson, on her fridge for over ten years. He tucked it into her lunchbox when she was around eight years old. Mike shared with Home Insemination Kit that he’s quite sentimental and couldn’t bear to part with it. The note resonated with countless people on Reddit, showing how a simple gesture can speak volumes about parenting.
Children need to feel loved; that is the bottom line. Sure, they also need guidance, discipline, and all the other bells and whistles that come with parenting. But moments like this highlight the little things that stick with them for a lifetime.
This note is nothing extravagant; it’s not the kind of thing you’d pin on Pinterest or boast about on social media. It’s just genuine affection. As we read about this father’s heartfelt gesture from 20 years ago, we don’t question his parenting choices—we see the bond he built with his daughter.
If only we could grant ourselves that same grace in the present moment!
This week, let’s set aside the latest parenting research about how many hours you should spend with your child or what you should do together. Instead, write a note. Give your kid a hug. Frame that drawing they’re so proud of and hang it in a visible spot. It’s the little things that matter, parents!
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In summary, a father’s simple yet profound note in his daughter’s lunchbox serves as a beautiful reminder that love is what our kids truly need. Small gestures of affection can have a lasting impact on their lives.