At 35, I find myself surrounded by terms like “advanced maternal age” and “annual mammogram.” Sure, I can feel the years passing as my friends age alongside me, but you know what? Forget that noise. I’m not old—I’m thriving in my mid-thirties, and here’s why!
Fashion Freedom
When I shop, I know exactly what fits my body now. No more squeezing into “boyfriend jeans” that were clearly not made for my curves. It’s a relief to skip all that nonsense and head straight for the “curvy” section, where those jeans slide on effortlessly. Boom—done!
Less Time in the Dressing Room
I also spend less time in the dressing room, which I once deemed a personal hell. I remember when I used to hit the mall every Friday, blissfully unaware of time and responsibilities. That girl? She had it easy, and honestly, I kind of envy her (a little).
Maturity and Priorities
I’ve matured into a better person, too. Gone are the days of tossing and turning at night, planning my outfits for the week. Now, my thoughts are more substantial: Did I sign those permission slips AGAIN? What’s our fire escape plan? Is that mole on my husband’s back something to worry about? I’ll Google it after I sign those slips—if I can find the coffee creamer first. Ah, priorities!
True Connections
I know who my people are now. The ones who matter are stuck with me for life—through thick and thin, richer and poorer. I’m not just talking about my husband; my true friends, the ones who loved me even when I was a carefree dreamer, still stand by me as a slightly frazzled version. Life’s ups and downs have only made these bonds stronger.
Fighting Spirit
At 35, I’ve got more fight than ever. Whether it’s age, experience, or just a surge of hormonal energy, if something gets me riled up, watch out! I’ve learned to identify what’s truly important and worth fighting for. At halfway to 70, I intend to make the most of my time.
Mastering the Art of Swearing
Also, let’s not forget that I’ve finally mastered the art of swearing in a way that feels just right for me. It’s taken years of practice, but I can confidently hail a cab, trip in public, mix a cocktail, and even light a match without losing my cool.
Being 35 is pretty fantastic. Seriously, give it a shot!
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Summary
Turning 35 has brought me a sense of confidence and clarity. I embrace my body, cherish my relationships, and have learned to prioritize what truly matters. With newfound strength and a sprinkle of humor, this age has never felt better!