Let me share a little anecdote about my mom. She grew up in Montreal and, at just six years old, made her way to first grade all by herself. One day, running late, she hatched a clever plan to cut through St. Augustine’s Church. That way, when the nuns questioned her tardiness, she could honestly claim she had been to church. Genius, right?
She also reminisced about a classmate who often found herself in hot water for mischief. Rather than face the music at home, she would hitch a ride with the milkman and spend her day cruising around in his truck. Safe? Probably not.
These stories popped into my mind after reading an article in Slate about a checklist from 1979 meant to assess whether six-year-olds were ready for school. Some items still resonate today, such as:
- Can your child clearly explain where they live to a school crossing guard or police officer?
- Is your child able to draw and color while staying within the lines?
- Can they balance on one foot with their eyes closed for five to ten seconds?
However, one item on that checklist would definitely raise eyebrows today: Can your child navigate the neighborhood alone (four to eight blocks) to get to the store, school, playground, or a friend’s house? This question has sparked a movement known as Free Range Kids, which has stirred up quite the conversation.
As KJ Antonia from Slate noted, “It’s astonishing how much has changed in nearly 35 years.” In 1979, a first grader was expected to be “six years and six months old” and have “two to five permanent or secondary teeth.” Back then, such a child would be deemed ready for preschool, while today, they might be considered a mini middle schooler, biking around town and finding their own way home.
Have our communities transformed so drastically? Are we simply more aware of the lurking dangers, or have we collectively lost our common sense?
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In summary, while the readiness of children for first grade has evolved, the fundamental aspects of parenting remain a topic of interest and debate. Balancing independence with safety is an ongoing challenge for parents today.